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How to handle going out with an ex girlfriends best friend
It's been a difficult situation so I wanted to see what some anonymous people think about it. I'm a 21 year old guy and there's a girl that's been really kingly and wants to go out with me. I'm having trouble just avoiding her and I'm really not into her, but it seems she's kind of obsessed with me.
The problem is I've recently been spending time with her best friend which I'm really getting close to. I know her friend is interested, but I'm hesitant and she is also to get into a relationship because I don't want to be in the way of their friendship with each other.
I feel like bad to be messing up their friendship, but on the other hand I feel it's not my fault and I was never interested in the first girl and it should be ok to go out with whoever I want.
I want to know what people think of the situation and how they view it. Would you try not to cause a bunch of conflict or just go with it and see what happens??
Thanks a bunch I appreciate it!
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i don't think it would be wrong for YOU to do anything but it would be wrong for the friend to do that to the obsessed one. i guess it actually would be wrong for you to make the friend even contemplate doing that to the other one. so basically, i'm sorry to say this as you seem a really nice guy - because you were actually worrying about hurting someone - but i think you should stay clear.
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k i was in a situation like this before but the thing is i was going out with a guy but he was too shy around me and we didnt talk then i met his best friend and we clicked.me and the guy broke up because there was nothing there and as i started to get to know the best friend we fell for eachother so we started dating.as soon as that happened it ruied the relationship between the two boys.the guy knew i didnt feel for him and stuff but because he still liked me he thought that it was wrong of his bestfriend to go for the same girl.for 6months it was a love tirnagle, the guy tried to break use up we would never get a chnce to be happy because there was a devide between the groups and ppl were taking sides...these r guys we re talking bout now with girls it can get really bitchy especially if shes obsessed with you. shes probibly told all her friends about you especially the best friend. the girl will be angry at her BF it might actually break their friendship up.do you want to be stuck in a love triangle like that where everytime you meet up with the girl you like, shell just complain about how her bestfriend is giving her shit for going out with you?then her friends will have opinions and take sides and see what the BF did was wrong bla bla do you really want that?? i mean maybe get the bf to talk to the girl thats obsessed with you and get her to ask if shed get angry if you two started dating and see what she says. over all i really dont think you should go there you know how girls can get over guys especially if shes obsessed with you
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