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Why am I still not over him?!
I seriously am going crazy with this guy... his name's Kris and he's like one of thee most amazing, sweet, gorgeous, athletic, guys I have ever met. We had a big fling during the summer but it ended because of me :/ I ended it with him because there was so much drama involved in it (lots of rumors about him, girls were incredibly jealous/catty towards me, etc.) and I just couldn't take it anymore. He and I were like heartbroken well at least I was :( and I'm still not OVER him. Like it's been a month now and I can't seem to focus... not in school, or sports or anything without him in my mind! When ever I see him which is quite often I get butterflies in my stomach, my legs feel week, etc. I think I still like him a lot but I'm not sure... I don't know how he feels about me or if he still has any feelings for me for that matter and today at our school's football game I saw him on the bleachers with his friend and a bunch of girls... they were all laughing and I incredibly jealous (which by the way doesn't happen often because of my big ego) and even my friends noticed. So anyone wanna give me advice on what to do?!
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Well i'd try and talk to him if i were you maybe ask him how he is and how his day has been to start the conversation just to see what he says and how he acts i wouldn't bring up the topic of what happened between you two i'd give it a shot to try and talk to him even if it doesn't end the way you wanted you'll still know that you tried there's no harm in trying and i wouldn't listen to any rumors in the future seeing as you don't know what's true and what's not as far as jealously is concerned let the other girls be jealous just do what you feel is right for you
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So, you broke up with your boyfriend because other girls liked him? I suppose you could avoid this situation in the future by dating a social leper.
Seriously, you let other people get to you, and broke up with him over those insecurities. You can't get over him because you still like him. And you're jealous because you still want to be with him, but you see him with other girls. You need to trust that he's telling you the truth and will be faithful to you.
Tell him how you feel. Say that you made a mistake and still want to be with him, despite the fact that there will always be rumors and other admirers. Talking to him will also be the only way to know how he feels about you, because asking someone else will backfire, 99.99% guaranteed- they'll lie if he says he still likes you, because THEY want to be with him. Get it?
I'm warning you, though, that he's most likely very hurt by what you did. He may not want to be with someone who's insecure about a relationship to the extent that you are/were. A sincere apology is in order regardless of what happens between you two in the future.
-LM
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