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too much confusion!


Question Posted Friday October 2 2009, 8:20 am

i am a girl, 18 years of age, from india. i met a guy on the internet a few months ago. he's the same age as me. we both live in different cities but are in contact through net and phone calls. he had proposed me about 2 months back, but at that time i had refused because by his behaviour and the no. of girls he's in contact with, i thought he was a flirt. we still continued to be great friends. but i realised that i have fallen in love with him just a few days ago when he stopped calling me or taking my calls. but then, after a few days he told me that he had been out of his town that's why couldn't take my calls. and now he has reduced the no. of times he used to call. please help me, because i dont want to lose him now. even though i know he has many girls there in his life. but i still cant help my feelings for him. i had already rejected him first and now i dont know what to do when i've realised that i too have fallen for him. what should i do? i want him to love me now. will it be possible in any way?

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Additional info, added Friday October 2 2009, 8:27 am:
well we still keep talking stupid stuff, like he says he will marry me if no one else does. and we keep building dreams of our future and he acts way too possessive about me sometimes. but at a point of time, we turn all of it in a joke and then forget it. it was me only who had acted rude to him all this time. i used to ignore his calls many a times and didnt replied to his messages on time. after that he reduced his calls and messages. and now i m dying to receive his calls. he still sometimes talks romantic stuff, but in such a comic way that no one would ever take it seriously. but i now want him to be serious about it. i now want to fall in a relationship with him. will it be possible?.

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Daintree answered Friday October 2 2009, 6:32 pm:
Are you in India or born there & live somewhere else? Bring back the good old days when you met people at the dance. I don't understand this cyber dating thing I just don't like the concept of believing everything I hear Guys tell lies you can tell if you look close enough & listen to the deception I can catch people in lies all the time.
obsevations & story mixups. If it's the truth the story never waivers but lies cannot be told exaxtly the same they always add something or leave something out or change the angle. So I wouldn't get carried away with him guys are supose to chase girls not the other way around. Don't become so desparate that he is the only pebble on the beach because you know that's not true. You will know when your in love and the mind games he's playing he dosen't diserve you. Can you find someone closer to home someone you can talk to face to face have coffee together and date in the real world not the cyber world. Don't beat yourself up over him. find someone you can cuddle up and watch a sunset with that's what love is about spending time together feeling closeness. Good luck sweetie.

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