so my parents are really strict. by my friend is having like 10 girls sleepovver her house the night of her birthday, but before that were just gunna walk around town and stuff until like late. And she told me like 2 weeks ago that her mom said curfew would be at 1230. and then today she asked me if 2 oclock was okay. to which my mom said no obviusly. but since her mom already said 1230 before what changed her mind? so heres what im thinking...
what a lot of my friends do is that since they know my mom will be the first to say no, then if their [parents wont let them do something, they will ask me, knowing my mom will say no, so they can tell everyone it is my mom that said no and not theirs. so i think she was hoping my mom wouldnt let. which is true. but just to see if she was doing what i think shes doing, i told her mom said yes. and she was all "oh really? i thot forsure she would say no" but so far she hasnt told her that her mom wont let. what do i do if her mom realy did say 2? and how to i get people to stop doing this to me?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship? Daintree answered Friday October 2 2009, 8:30 pm: How old is she? walking the streets at night is not a sleep over to me it getting in to mischief. and 12:30 is way late enough for a whole bunch of female minors. What do you expect to see out there in the middle of the night anyway. If your friend is changing the times I supect she has a hidden agender or just showing off 12:30 is late enough. You do realise that the drunks and bad guys are out this time of night. If you want your friends to stop tricking you into finding out what plan they can hatch just pretend you didn't ask your Mum yet. Get them telling you how they went asking thier Mum leave your cards till last. Put the shoe on the other foot. turn it around don't fold in and buckle. If something goes wrong on your girlfriends birthday bash I supect this will be the last sleep over all of you have. Please Be carefull. don't take sleezy photos they will just end up on the internet o.k. have fun I hope this helps [ Daintree's advice column | Ask Daintree A Question ]
asknava answered Friday October 2 2009, 7:13 pm: Well I wouldn't even lie, I would just straight up say, you ask you mom first...then I will ask my mom. That's it, and if they don't want to ask their mom first then say well hey...guess we wont be going haha :) you know just act like you don't care...maybe their mom is the same way and they just don't want people to know :) putting it on you distracts from them :) That's what I think :) OK Peace [ asknava's advice column | Ask asknava A Question ]
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