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I think I love him... but I don't want to get hurt...
15/f (the guy is 16)... first off, I'd like to say that I think that "loving someone" and "being in love" are different things... anyways so I've been going out with this guy for 3 weeks and one day and I think it's just going GREAT :) which is just amazing because I am terrible at relationships... I've had a lot of really really short term relationships... There were only 2 guys that I was really serious about (before this one) but now i'm over them. Now, about my new boyfriend :) this guy is just...wow he's perfect... I don't think I've ever met a guy that I've had such a connection with :) we just have so much in common and I can always just be myself around him... I'm his first girlfriend and I was his first kiss so I guess I'm pretty special to him... I've kissed guys before him, but it never felt as special as it is now :) I really honestly think I love this guy...not like "in love" but I can see myself falling in love with him someday...the thing is, I can get majorly paranoid about him. Like I'm always afraid I'm going to lose him and I would seriously be crushed if he broke up with me... It's like everytime I sense something is a little off in his voice or if we're texting and he doesn't reply for a while, I will be freaking out thinking he's going to break up with me :( and I HATE that feeling because I just want to feel like he's mine and I won't ever lose him but I just can't let myself do that because I'm scared I'll get hurt really bad... is there anyway to get rid of this paranoid feeling? I feel like it's holding me back from being closer to him and I hate it :(
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"Being deeply loved by someone gives you strength, while loving someone deeply gives you courage.”
“It takes more courage to reveal insecurities than to hide them, more strength to relate to people than to dominate them, more 'manhood' to abide by thought-out principles rather than blind reflex.
Toughness is in the soul and spirit, not in muscles and an immature mind.
”Strength is born in the deep silence of long-suffering hearts; not amid joy.”
Pull yourself together train your thoughts to be positive you don't want negative thoughts enjoy every minute live in the moment.
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It's natural , it all boils down to trust and insecurity.
I am 28 , and still learning this!!
He needs to be aware how scared you get sometimes, he probably has no idea.
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