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This Dude. XD
Alright so there's this kid in two of my classes who's wicked cute, and I wanted to get to know him better. From what i've heard though:he'll flirt with any girl. But i have a feeling he's just one of those "wanna be" players, like he's the kind of guy that trys to act all cool at first when in reality he has no idea what he's doing :P. So i know when guys are flirts, they usually like girls that play hard to get or tease them. I've been doing that, but i want him to fall for me, not just think i'm a game. He gave me his number and told me to text him, so i did. He told me he thought i was gorgeous,which made me obviously in a good mood XD. But i'm afraid that to this guy, i'm just another cute girl, as the many others he talks to.I was talking to him and he was like " i could beat you up!" (jokingly) and i was like "Psh, i'd dominate your a$$" and then he said "In bed" ,causing me to say "Well thats a given" -- But i was joking, obviously,haha! i don't just want a hookup with him :( So! Question is! How in the WORLD do i get this guy to focus on me and only me!? He seems like he's actually kind of a sensitive guy underneath it all :P How can i tell if he just wants a hookup? How can i make him NOT just want a hookup with me? Should i even bother with him? Please help ! haha :P!
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Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life?
I can see you won't compromise your integrity I commend you for that. That shows good character Now you need to look for a guy who shows these qualities too. If he comes wrapped in a gorgious face & body that's just a bonus. what your really looking for in a beau is a deep and profound mutral respect, trust & friendship. Outside that he's not the one for you.
If you want to win him over you got to give a little attention. By being caring attentive feminine trusting reliable truthfull. Although woman don't apparently guys like Vanilla fragrances it reminds them of baking. You just got to have a few tricks up your sleeve honey. I get my inspiration & integrity from quotes I google
Like this one for instance from
Young love is a flame; very pretty, often very hot and fierce, but still only light and flickering. The love of the older and disciplined heart is as coals, deep burning, unquenchable.
-- Henry Ward Beecher.
A friend is one who knows who you are, understands where you have been, accepts what you become, and still gently invites you to grow.
-- Unknown.
"Stay" is a charming word in a friend's vocabulary.
-- Louisa May Alcott.
The way to a man's heart is through his somach.
--Unknown
Love fails, only when we fail to love.
-- J. Franklin.
Compassion is the basis of morality.
-- Arnold Shopenhauer.
It's better to regret something you did, rather than to regret something you didn't do.
-- Unknown.
Forgive all who have offended you, not for them, but for yourself.
-- Harriet Nelson.
You are the answer to every prayer I've said. I couldn't have made you more perfect if I tried. You have become a thief and stolen my heart. Please don't be a vandal and break it.
-- Angelina Kristine.
God always answers in the deeps, never in the shallows of our soul
To understand the heart and mind of a person, look not at what he has already achieved, but at what he aspires to.
-- Khalil Gibran.
Looking for love is like looking for a diamond in a large pile of broken glass and you are on top searching for it with your bare hands.
-- Unknown.
Hope is passion for what is possible.
-- Soren Kierkegaard.
I have not failed. I've just found 10,000 ways that won't work.
-- Thomas Alva Edison.
You've got to give to receive.
--Unknown
I could go on all day, I encourage you to look up some quotes there are thousands of them that are truley inspiring and character building You will have much knowledge on the things you are learning now about life love loss courage hope everything you want to know can be said in a sentace and it makes sence. Happy reading you should be quite satisfied with your efforts regarding all your choices you can pick from through out your whole life. This is where I got these quotes from www.farid-hajji.net
He is from Germany. You will know how to win your beaus affection.
I just found this one from a list of cute love
Find a guy who calls you beautiful instead of hot, who calls you back when you hang up on him, who will lie under the stars and listen to your heartbeat, or will stay awake just to watch you sleep... wait for the boy who kisses your forehead, who wants to show you off to the world when you are in sweats, who holds your hand in front of his friends, who thinks you' re just as pretty without makeup on. One who is constantly reminding you of how much he cares and how lucky he is to have YOU... The one who turns to his friends and says, thats her...
UNKNOWN
Good luck sweetie
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Yes you should bother! Sounds like you have a pretty good relationship going....now make it seem that you are the only girl for him.
Make it so that he doesn't go through a day without thinking of you..... whether it be of friendship first...
If he just wants to hookup, you'll be able to tell in the casual way of his manner not as serious or caring. It's in a girls instinct, you'll be able to tell.... This'll be easier since you want this(right?)
Any guy who's cute will flirt don't worry about that.
And him giving you his number is a good thing...unless he gives it to all girls??
I want to believe that every guy is a sensitive guy underneath...and it's true for many of them, you just need to find a way to make him think of you that way...
Just show that you care for him. That if he's at the end of the world you'll be there for him.
Once you're his girl, he'll stay away from the other girls becuase he'll know you're the only one for him!
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