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What do you think the perfect guy is like?
Could you please decide the perfect guy in your eyes? Any and all details would be appreciated. I'm trying to help my best guy friend improve himself and get the girl of his dreams but he needs a lot of work. I need other thoughts from other girls so I can figure out what are the most wanted and liked traits in guys. He said he was up for anything including cutting his hair, growing it out, dying it, gaining or losing weight and/or muscle, and anything that he will have to change to his personality. He wants to be a new guy and I want to help him! Thoughts, please?
OH and by the way he is 16 right now almost 17.
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Ok if your friend wants to improve himself to be a better person then thats ok honestly any girl would probably like a guy their type. If hes gonna change his looks n personality to get the girl of his dreams he should be carefull there can be a not-so-good side to this. Sure he can change his hair clothes get muscular n yeah even his personality thats fine so wut if he finds a girl like his new self, stays with her along time but then they break up n a new girl he likes comes along but has the same personality as he did before he improved himself. Truth be told he might go through more than 5 or even 10 girls before he gets his dream girl. Unless he is a self centered rude and immature then he could defidently change his personality. Or if hes fat or too scrawny then muscles are good. It depends on who he is on the inside most importantly i mean noone would want a hot guy whose rude to them. I cant exactly tell u wut could help him because i dont know his looks his style or his personality. But the best he c
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I think you should work out what type of chick is he looking for... he may date 10 or more similar but different girls before he finds his princess. He has to know what he desires then work around that image. He's still young so he may not have a great deal of charm going on at the moment but that comes with practice. A make over is a good start he has to choose a style that suits him & his lifestyle. eg; surfies don't wear suits and buisiness guys don't wear thongs they wear sandles. take him shopping Teach him ettiquette eg you don't slurp your soup in a restaurant elbows off the table. open car door etc. lifting wieghts is always confident building for a guy. Lord knows you might like what you done to him & keep him for yourself LOL. P.S. if he can fix things he's a legend in my eyes.
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I think its awesome that he wants to change and be a more confident person, but i believe he should really be doing this for himself. Think about it, not every girl is going to like just one type of guy! It all just depends on generally who you are. Honestly, for me,i just like a guy who's confident to be himself. I usually gravitate to guys that are just crazy and funny, or artistic and deep. All 4 of those, and it's perfection. But really, when am i ever going to find those traits all at once?
And even so if i do, how do i know that's what I'm really looking for? You know? In truth no one ever really knows what they want,because people are unpredictable with there actions XD. One day they could hate cocky guys, then date a sensitive guy,now alls they want is for someone to boss them around XD. Its more about accepting someone- goods and bads. Everyone has different circumstances. Some girls love shy guys, others go wild for the confident ones. What he should be doing is just getting to know and meeting new girls, and if there's a spark its there, but if not then move on! Give him a new look that looks awesome on him, something that will reflect who he is as a person!Ask him, "What do you want to look like? What do YOU want to be?" Because if he doesn't accept himself them no one will. Don't try to change him too much or he'll loose his self and end up really confused (I've been there, changing myself for a guy, only to backfire in the end).He's got to think "This is me, and if YOU don't like it, then so be it!" On the contrary if he wants to become a better person for himself, then helping him on that journey would be much more fulfilling! So point blank, i wish i could tell you what all girls like in men, but as you know we're all different! So what i would do is revamp his wardrobe and give him a hair cut, something that'll look great on him, make him look confident, and shows off who he is :P. Sorry if i'm scattered, i'm tired :O. I reaaally hope i helped though, because god knows i've been here before ! Hahah, good luck!
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