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Okay so about 6 months agon me and my best friend were on the run together. Then when we got caught we werent allowed to talk while we were in rehab because our parents think were too co dependant! Well now that we are both out our parents say we have to take things slow and im still not able to see her yet! it sucks because all our friends either have to hang out with only one of us because of it, And our friend summer which is our other bestfriends birthday is soon and only one of us can go! If you knew how close the 3 of us were you would understand how hard this is. Me leighanne and summer are like the three amigas! lol. But this sucks so bad I just want my bes friend back in my life now. She is everything to me :( (link)
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well i guess it probaby wasnt the smartest thing to do. decide for at least one of you to go and play it out. parents are strict. and will not trust the two of you together. just go along with it and let them regain yours and hers trust again and one day you'll finall y be together. just dont give up. things have away of working its way around tough obsticals. if you are true BFF"s then best friends will wait for eachother to the end. i know because my best friend kept that promise after we wer seperated for 7 years. no matter how hard it is to be seperated youve got to be strong for em.
hope this helped
Good luck
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I Have A Friend That Is 13 Or 14, Actually She's My Sister's Friend, However, She's Pregnant. She's Like My Sister's BFF, And She's Gonna Keep The Baby. Her Boyfriend That Got Her Pregnant Is Like 16 Or 17, I Have No Objections With That Because My Boyfriend Is 5 Years Older Than Me, But Her Parents Are The Kinda People That Find out Everything, I'm Friends With Her Cousin, And She Says That Their Parents Find Out EVERYTHING That They Do, But I Mean How Can They Not Know This??? I Mean This Is Like Her Life, They Spend All Of Their Time Figuring Out Stupid Stuff, Because They Never Thought That Their Daughter Would EVER Do Something Soo Stupid, She Took A Pregnancy Test 3 Times, And She's Definatly Pregnant, Her Aunt Knows, But I'm Scared For Her, Because Her Boyfriend, He Doesn't Even Know, And They've Been Broken Up For Awhile.. He's A TOTAL ASS!! And Me And Jaci Are Gonna Rip His Balls Off And Feed Them To Him.. I Mean This Is Some REALLy Big Shit She's In, I Mean I Couldn't Even Imagine.. I Need Some Advice On How To Comfort Her, She's Soo Younggg, Her Ex- Boyfriend Is An Asshole Who Will Prolly Say It's Not His, Weelllll Shiiittt Who The Fuck Else Is She Gonnaa Be Having Sex With, I Mean God! She's 13! I'm Just Really Scared For Her.. And She's keeping The Baby No Matter What, If Her Parents Kick Her Out, She Could Always Come Live With Us.. But I'm Upset I Can't Help Anymore Than That.. And She Isn't Really That Upset Of Scared About It.. Which Really Concerns Me.. (link)
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if she wants to keep it then you need to tell her she had better be able to handle the physical, and emotional pain of it especially being an teenage single parent! no matter how hard it might be for her persuade her to get an abortion shes throwing her life away and yeah sure babies are cute and all but are alot to handle and could really hurt her especially when female bodies cannot fully support a baby untill your like 19. not only is it affecting her friends but her life too. and if her parents kick her out then theyre not worth being there for her. as for the boyfriend tell him and if he doesnt except it then what can you do. it is a proven fact that the majority of guys are asswholes. it is the both are their faults. her for laying down and him for not keeping it in his pants. no matter what make sure the parents know and take her to the hospital to get an abortion. thats is extremely important. it might be hard taking a life out of the world but bad to bring one in too. if she is past three months pregnant then she'll have no choice but to keep it.
hope this helped.
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Question Posted Friday February 5 2010, 6:51 pm
ok so I met this girl this past summer she was in a two year relationship with a guy and he cheated on her and she found out and she was completely crushed and heartbroken she loved him so much he was her first and everything but anyway I met her on a social site she friend requested me and I looked at her photos and commented one saying she was pretty and she commented me back saying awww thanks and that's where it all started we were just friends for a while she was talking to my best friend and they dated for about a week and things started to fade for them and I started to like her during all this because we talked pretty much every day and so then one day I told her and she said she was nothing special but I told her you're very special to me and so then we started talking and then I told my best friend we were and he got really mad and we got in this huge fight that lasted for about 2 months but it settled down and we became friends again but back to this... she would thank me every day for helping her and being there for her after her ex and she told me she never wanted to lose me and I definitely didn't want to either that whole summer we talked I sent her goodmorning texts every morning and still do she loves it but that whole summer we never got to see each other which was rough on us she lives 35 minutes away from me but after 4 months of waiting to finally meet her it happened she cheerleads and I showed up to one of her games as a surprise it took me a while to find her she texted me telling me that they won and I replied by telling her I was there she didn't believe but I told her where I was and she found me I don't think I ever smiled so much in my life she was so beautiful even they she disagrees with me on that but she was we did more hugging than talking it was just awesome and from there on out I went to every home game she had everything was just perfect I hadn't been that happy in 2 years as months passed things changed the week before christmas I got to see her and I gave her, her present I got her titanic her favorite movie and we just chilled for a while and then as I had to go we hugged and I went in for a kiss and she turned away so I just kissed her on the cheek later I texted her asking why she wouldn't kiss me and she said she had a lot going on so I just left it alone a couple of days later I asked what was going on and she told me she was thinking about a lot and she said she didn't wanna talk about it so I again I just left it alone and then finally 2 days after christmas I asked her if she still liked me and she told that she thinks its better that we're just friends I didn't know what to do or what to say I had been through this many times before but this time it was different it hit me hard I cried in the shower that night for about 20 minutes eventually I settled down two days later she texts me asking me if I was alright and then she told me that she was sorry and that I was the most amazing boy she had ever met and to stay that way and she said she couldn't imagine life without me so things got a little better but I still feel a little pain I still really like her and have feelings for her and here lately from what I sense and see I think she still has feelings for me or at least I like to think that but she doesn't seem the same ever since she just wanted to be friends we never dated we just talked for a really long time because she wasn't ready for a relationship yet and I told her I'd wait for until she was ready but I just wanna know if she still has feelings I just can't stop thinking about her I wanna know (link)
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well from the way you and her were its seems you were giving her something thats called too much love. and its not a bad thing its normal because i have gone through it my self to. youve just about answered this your self just give her time. and if you really want to know if she has feeling for you then itll show up eventually. dont be to hard on your self if she does shell come back for for you, at the time she is ready. if you really really want to know arrange something friendly not a date since she says shes not ready. and tell her how you feel and dont go overboard. over time things will work out. love has many ups and downs but trust me it allways comes around for the real one you love. just remind her little by little that you do care.
hope this helped
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Could you please decide the perfect guy in your eyes? Any and all details would be appreciated. I'm trying to help my best guy friend improve himself and get the girl of his dreams but he needs a lot of work. I need other thoughts from other girls so I can figure out what are the most wanted and liked traits in guys. He said he was up for anything including cutting his hair, growing it out, dying it, gaining or losing weight and/or muscle, and anything that he will have to change to his personality. He wants to be a new guy and I want to help him! Thoughts, please?
OH and by the way he is 16 right now almost 17. (link)
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Ok if your friend wants to improve himself to be a better person then thats ok honestly any girl would probably like a guy their type. If hes gonna change his looks n personality to get the girl of his dreams he should be carefull there can be a not-so-good side to this. Sure he can change his hair clothes get muscular n yeah even his personality thats fine so wut if he finds a girl like his new self, stays with her along time but then they break up n a new girl he likes comes along but has the same personality as he did before he improved himself. Truth be told he might go through more than 5 or even 10 girls before he gets his dream girl. Unless he is a self centered rude and immature then he could defidently change his personality. Or if hes fat or too scrawny then muscles are good. It depends on who he is on the inside most importantly i mean noone would want a hot guy whose rude to them. I cant exactly tell u wut could help him because i dont know his looks his style or his personality. But the best he c
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okay so i like this kid for some time (2 years, i think it might actually be love but i cant admit it). last year we were really close and i still liked him and i am positive he liked me, he would sit with me at my lunch table when he had soo many other friends at another table, and we would just only talk to eachother. i remember how people would come up to us and be like "are you two dating?. you two look really cute together!".. and jokingly he would say "yes"..haha i was eating icecream once and i couldnt finish it so he took it and helped me finish it, and one time this kid was flirting with me and my friend was like "you should totally date, right dan?" (his name is dan). and the kid that was flirting with me was one of dans good friends. so dan says "no, no she shouldn't"..i just looked at him and he didnt even stare at me..but when he said it i have never seen him so serious in my life. and theres this ex that always bothers him and she always talks to him and i get sad cuz she never lets me talk and he just randomly cuts her off to ask me a random question. one time i fell asleep in his arms and i looked up while he was holding me and we had eye contact for the longest time and i kept asking myself "should i kiss him?..should i?" but i looked down because i just felt so embarassed..so, haha lost track in the good times. i kept waiting for him to be like "lets hangout" or something but he never did. so i had doubts that he didnt like me. so this guy asked me out and i did..just because i felt sadand lonely. after that me and dan were never close as we used to be. we would still talk and stuff but not like long one on one conversations. and when i broke up with my boyfriend after a couple of weeks i wanted to rebuild our friendship but it has always stayed the same. so now i decided that i need to get over him by avoiding him. i was doing a good job but one day we were face to face and he opens his arms for a hug. and that was it. i felt like crying and i never wanted to let go. i know we are perfect for eachother, i have never been sure in my life. so now i messaged him asking him "what happened?..we never talk anymore like we used to..we used to be close friends.."..i know he might have gotten over me. but is it possible that some one can like you again? please help. i am in pain. and i know its stupid. i always make fun of the girls that cry over girls...now i am one of them (link)
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I know how you feel its the same thing between me and my friend. If you really like/love him you should talk to him face to face explaining how you feel even if your scared to or not. Also spend lots of time with him but not too much you dont want to smuther him. And if you want try an convince him to ask you out or do something simple like go for a walk to be alone. You cant refuse what your heart wants but be careful a relationship can damage destroy a friendship
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this kid really really likes me, i kinda like him.
but the problem is i dont wanna be made fun of with him because hes not really the best lookin of kid. and i dont know. i might not like him cuz of this. i dont know what i think! give me some advice to cheer me up! and just get over that fact. im looking at his personality, not his outer appearance.
i dont think this is a very big problem but i could use some help.
thanks. (link)
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Its simple, if you like him and he likes you should get to know eachother and you never know he could be a really good person if you like him you shouldnt care what other people say what matters is your opinion dont ever be afraid to like someone just because of immature people. I hoped that helped
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