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I'm Losingg My Friend Too Motherhood!!


Question Posted Monday October 16 2006, 1:52 pm

I Have A Friend That Is 13 Or 14, Actually She's My Sister's Friend, However, She's Pregnant. She's Like My Sister's BFF, And She's Gonna Keep The Baby. Her Boyfriend That Got Her Pregnant Is Like 16 Or 17, I Have No Objections With That Because My Boyfriend Is 5 Years Older Than Me, But Her Parents Are The Kinda People That Find out Everything, I'm Friends With Her Cousin, And She Says That Their Parents Find Out EVERYTHING That They Do, But I Mean How Can They Not Know This??? I Mean This Is Like Her Life, They Spend All Of Their Time Figuring Out Stupid Stuff, Because They Never Thought That Their Daughter Would EVER Do Something Soo Stupid, She Took A Pregnancy Test 3 Times, And She's Definatly Pregnant, Her Aunt Knows, But I'm Scared For Her, Because Her Boyfriend, He Doesn't Even Know, And They've Been Broken Up For Awhile.. He's A TOTAL ASS!! And Me And Jaci Are Gonna Rip His Balls Off And Feed Them To Him.. I Mean This Is Some REALLy Big Shit She's In, I Mean I Couldn't Even Imagine.. I Need Some Advice On How To Comfort Her, She's Soo Younggg, Her Ex- Boyfriend Is An Asshole Who Will Prolly Say It's Not His, Weelllll Shiiittt Who The Fuck Else Is She Gonnaa Be Having Sex With, I Mean God! She's 13! I'm Just Really Scared For Her.. And She's keeping The Baby No Matter What, If Her Parents Kick Her Out, She Could Always Come Live With Us.. But I'm Upset I Can't Help Anymore Than That.. And She Isn't Really That Upset Of Scared About It.. Which Really Concerns Me..

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Roxxi238 answered Friday June 18 2010, 12:40 pm:
if she wants to keep it then you need to tell her she had better be able to handle the physical, and emotional pain of it especially being an teenage single parent! no matter how hard it might be for her persuade her to get an abortion shes throwing her life away and yeah sure babies are cute and all but are alot to handle and could really hurt her especially when female bodies cannot fully support a baby untill your like 19. not only is it affecting her friends but her life too. and if her parents kick her out then theyre not worth being there for her. as for the boyfriend tell him and if he doesnt except it then what can you do. it is a proven fact that the majority of guys are asswholes. it is the both are their faults. her for laying down and him for not keeping it in his pants. no matter what make sure the parents know and take her to the hospital to get an abortion. thats is extremely important. it might be hard taking a life out of the world but bad to bring one in too. if she is past three months pregnant then she'll have no choice but to keep it.

hope this helped.

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