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movies?


Question Posted Saturday October 3 2009, 7:41 pm

okay so i'm supposed to be going to the movies with this guy i like. it's not definitely planned, but i mentioned i wanted to the see the movie really badly, and he said he'd go with me.
just like that.

as of now, i believe it's just us, but i don't know what to think of it.
like, we're friends, but i like him, but i'm not sure if this is just as friends, or if maybe he wants something more?


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VeNzUeLa answered Monday October 5 2009, 10:19 am:
It's as friends. It's always best not to expect too much of such a situation as you don't want to feel stupid later or something. SO just relax, and think of it as a friendly thing. Nothing more. If he wants something more, I'm sure he'll let you know, maybe ask you out. Other than that, you can't think too much about this, it's just as friends.

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itdependsonyoux3 answered Sunday October 4 2009, 9:09 am:
I've been in that situation a couple of times before. Once with my ex and once with my boyfriend. You just go as friends, don't think of it as anything else other than that because I can guarentee you that he is thinking the same thing. Think of it as ... this will help you decide if you want to be something more than friends [thats what is gonna go through his mind too] if he wants something more, trust me, you'll know.
Go with the flow and follow his lead. But as of now, keep it in the firends zone until he makes the first move [at the movies or after because with my ex, it was like after the movies he told me he wanted to date me and with my boyfriend he told me he wanted to be more than just friends AT the movies]
dont sweat it so much :] since he was the one who was all, YEAAH ill go with you, thats a REALLY good sign :] no doubtt. good luck ! have fun ! hope i helped, and if you need anything else, feel free to inbox me, xxo.

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