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i don't know what to think!
Posted Monday November 16 2009, 8:23 pm
There's this kid that I had a little thing with for a few weeks.Then one of his best friends randomly said he "doesn't like me anymore." He tried to talk to a few of my friends ,but they denied him.And he knew I was interested in him.He isn't good looking or popular ,he actually hasn't had a girlfriend since 8th grade and we are in 11th.I do actually like him a lot ! The reasons I think he likes me are : he talks to me on IM every single night (he talks to me first) for like atleast 2 hours ,he texts me when he's at work just to say hey,he asks me to chill every weekend and sometimes during the week,and sometimes his friends ask me about "us".Yet whenever we have long deep talks (which is almost daily) he gets into how h...
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Ready To date
Posted Monday November 16 2009, 8:18 pm
Ok i think i have an idea of what you guys will say but is there a way to tell that your ready to date?
I don't want to waste a girl's time if im not ready im 14/m and in 8th grade
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Sex.
Posted Monday November 16 2009, 8:14 pm
So, I'm fifteen & female. for the first time last weekend, my boyfriend and i had oral sex both ways. LIke he gave me oral & i have him oral. After it though, i felt like reeeeeal dirty. I mean, is that slutty or anything? I'm only fifteen and it just doesn't even feel right. Or is that normal the first time haha...I don't know, let me know, thank youu.
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he doesnt talk to me anymore?!
Posted Monday November 16 2009, 2:39 pm
okai so ever since i told this guy that i like him he doesnt talk to me anymore. he did the same with his ex after he broke up with her.
the thing is that we where really good friends before all that & he was actually leading me on as well?
but now he just doesnt talk to me anymore which makes me really depressed cause im still in love with him.
i tried talking to him again, i actually wrote him a text wishing him a nice weekend. and then he wrote back saying 'oh thanks to you too. how are you? what are you up to? we havent talked in a while... xo'
so then i wrote him back telling him what im up to & asking him how HE is etc and he wrote 'I'm good (...) we'll see eachother on monday! xo '
so yeah...
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He's sweet, but way too clingy!
Posted Monday November 16 2009, 1:32 am
I'm 19/f, and I've been dating my boyfriend (also 19) for almost a year.
We recently had a little "break" because we kept fighting and arguing. Now that we're back together, he's starting to drive me crazy again. Only this time, he's being way too clingy. I love him and I appreciate the fact that he's trying to remain close and intimate, but it's gotten to the point to where he whines when I have to go home and he holds me so tight and kisses me all over my face that I can barely breathe. Whenever we're alone he squeezes me and puts up a fight when I try to literally PRY him off. When we're on the phone I'll say I have to go and he'll say "BUT I LOVE YOU" over and over again.
When I tell him he needs to chi...
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My boyfriend called me immature
Posted Monday November 16 2009, 1:04 am
Well he is actually my ex boyfriend. I wasn't aware that I was immature. But he says that I behave like I am 10 years old sometimes (not always). That's not why he left me. He just sees me as a friend now. I am 16 years old and have never been called immature :(. Any ideas?
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what is he doing?
Posted Monday November 16 2009, 12:27 am
we went out for a long time. We were inlove, at least I was. He is trying to come back. Its been a year. He doesn't text me that much....he said that he wants to talk to me. Talk to me about? I don't know. He sounded serious so i don't know what to think. the reason why we broke up a year ago is because i found out he was talking to someone. He says he was just playing around with her. We used to hate each other. He would tell my friends how much he hated me. I would tell my friends how much i hated him. I just could never say that to his friends because i felt bad about it. Plus deep down i knew it wasn't true. I was just mad at him for what had happend. I just want if its posibble that a first love can be the one. I have been with many ot...
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Telling My Professor I Love Him
Posted Monday November 16 2009, 12:26 am
I'm in love with my professor and I'm pretty sure he feels the same way. We've become pretty close over the past few years and I want to move for something more.
I have already considered the consequences associated with this, but I've decided to go ahead anyways. I will not have any further classes with him and there is no university policy banning relationships. I don't really feel the need to defend myself here, but I'd really like helpful advice on this question, so it might be interesting to know that my counselor and I are in agreement that this professor and I are a good match.
I'm going to tell him how I feel about him, but I'm not sure exactly how to say it. He's pretty reserved, kind of shy. He's o...
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Haunting crush? (1)
Posted Monday November 16 2009, 12:03 am
A few months ago a friend i used to be closed to (i had a major crush on him & maybe again) tricked me by askin me out n not meaning it so i didnt talk to him for months or be nice with him. Hes a funny guy in 10th grade 1 year older than me & an inch short. Now he makes me laugh like he used to & tries to be around n talk to me more. Many people even my friends and his friends say that he could have liked me but was to afraid to admit it n because hes a little shorter than me....Could this be true? And what do i do....I like him...Again?
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How do i know if he is using me?
Posted Sunday November 15 2009, 11:57 pm
I am in a relationship with a guy and things seem to be going pretty good. My problem is that last time I thought things were going pretty well he was just using me and he moved on shortly after we started having sex.
Can anyone tell me a for sure way to tell? how do i know if he is using me??
Thnaks!
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gender confusion
Posted Sunday November 15 2009, 11:50 pm
I'm 19 and I'm a bisexual transexual male, i have a girlfriend, but she's homophobic and says gays are nasty. She doesn't know about my transexual lifesyle. Well i think like a woman, feel like one and i told her i want to get a sex change and asked her if she would still care for me...she said no and that she would leave me
So i kinda have been behind her back with this man i really like, and he's gay. He told me that whatever makes me happy and i should go for it and he'll be there for me, boy or girl.
So what should i do, i don't want to live like this all my life
And who should i choose.
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dance
Posted Sunday November 15 2009, 10:57 pm
im going to this dance with my girlfriend but i cant dance at all and im nervous, what can i do?
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Do you guys think he may like me? =3 (So long it'll knock your socks off!)
Posted Sunday November 15 2009, 10:37 pm
16/F
So, on with the story! On Halloween night, my friend threw this amazing party. It turned out we were going to watch a really scary movie. I don't do scary movies very well so I was a little bit nervous that I would scream my lungs out in front of everybody. Then a really nice thing happened. A guy that I'm friends with through my friend who threw the party came over to me. We've talked before and we see eachother at school all the time but we never really... "talked." He came over and said, "Don't worry, I don't really do scary movies either. If you want, we can hold on to eachother..." Of course I said yes and he was really sweet throughout the entire movie, and didn't make fun of me when I screamed like all...
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falling out of love, thinking of other guys :(
Posted Sunday November 15 2009, 8:52 pm
latley my boyfriend and i have not ben nearly as close, weve talked about it alot and have stopped fighting as much but how can we become so close again? also i might have fallen out of love with him :'( i dont want to talk to him on the phone anymore i find an excuse to hangup, id rather be with friends instead and so on. how can we become close again, i love him but idk whats going on.
today i went to kitaro and asked for an application and the waiter an i talked for over ten min and we both kept catching ourselves ,dare i say, flirting, the other guy never came back with an app so after a while i just said i had to go il come back some other time. i wasnt going to cheat but i felt so much more love out of him than out of my boyfriend of a year n a half.. any tips? :( 15/f
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vagina questions or does the clitoris size tell how much she is turned on?
Posted Sunday November 15 2009, 8:03 pm
I was wondering my girlfriend has a real big clit and her lips stick out a little bit and its a lot easier to get her to have a orgasm because her clit is easy to play with, other girls ive been with in the past there lips do not stick out and have a tiny little clit, does this mean when i messed around with them it didnt have the same effect?
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Should i ask him out?
Posted Sunday November 15 2009, 7:08 pm
okay so i have a huge crush on my friends brother, he always says hi to me, and i always say hi back but im too shy usually to have a long conversation, any ways as a joke me and him pass notes and his sister is the messanger (hes in high school 9th grade and im in 8th grade at middle school but the schools are on the same campus) anyways the note usually say like cute little things about how were best friends and every thing, and i want to ask him out, but is that weird considereing that im the girl, or is it too hard to date some one in high school? and if he said no then it would be really akward between me and him and his sister and mine friendship.oh and btw im 14 if that matters. thankyou and please gove advice =]
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How can you love someone you hate?
Posted Sunday November 15 2009, 3:02 pm
ok so me and this guy dated last year 3 times. he dumped me the first 2 times for other girls but he would always lie to me and make up excuses. the last time we dated he had been begging to get me back for a while but i kept saying no. a few months later i decided to date him again because yes i loved him. after only 2 days he managed to screw up AGAIN! he was texting this other chick and long story short i found out about it. i asked him about it and told him not to lie to me. he told me he liked her but not as much as me. i said thats okay and thanked him for being honest. but he said he still dosn't know what to do. i was like well if you like me more then whats there to figure out? eventually i was just so fed up i dumped him before he...
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my bff needs a steady relationship
Posted Sunday November 15 2009, 2:11 pm
i really want my best friend to get into a steady relationship. how can i help her? she really wants to but she has never seen a steady relationship other than me and my boyfriend which we are fifteen and she planned our wedding and already made invitations.. were not getting married anyyyytime soon. she doesnt even know who her dad is and each of her siblings is from a different dad. we go to a school that either half the people are rich in mansions and half are country kids. me n her are neither, and its a school of all white kids and shes the only black person so she makes so many black jokes, yet she is very outgoing dramatic and the loudest and the most independant person iv ever met, in a good way, were there for eachother no matter w...
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Am I Invisible?
Posted Sunday November 15 2009, 7:24 am
I Dont really know how to say this, it's kind of embarresin relly. But theres no other way
well the thing is iv alwaiiz been awesome in makin friendz havin boyfriendz talkin laughin and everfin a person should be good at but now iv seen this guy that i really have a crush on and doesnt even know that i exist i really like its never happened like this before whenever hez around i dont do anything right normally n usually guyz try to get my attention but this guyz different how shall i talk to him what shall i say? Help!
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im freaking out idk what to do
Posted Sunday November 15 2009, 3:15 am
ok so theres this amazing guy i like and i think he might like me 2 but im so bad at these kind of things idk what to do.everytime i see him i get anxious and melt. He looks st me at nutriion and one walked to our classes together. he talked to me the other night over facebook and said he would try to make the football game ..bascially for me. i couldnt go becuase i was grounded. now im so scared to say hi on facebook. Everytime im about to he signs off.(my luck right?) well he always looks at me when i pass by and my friends think he likes me. He asked if i had my texting bak yet. but i said no. his friend kept look at me te entire break one day and i wondering why. Im realyy freaking out because i dont know if he likes me and everybody s...
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