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falling out of love, thinking of other guys :(
latley my boyfriend and i have not ben nearly as close, weve talked about it alot and have stopped fighting as much but how can we become so close again? also i might have fallen out of love with him :'( i dont want to talk to him on the phone anymore i find an excuse to hangup, id rather be with friends instead and so on. how can we become close again, i love him but idk whats going on.
today i went to kitaro and asked for an application and the waiter an i talked for over ten min and we both kept catching ourselves ,dare i say, flirting, the other guy never came back with an app so after a while i just said i had to go il come back some other time. i wasnt going to cheat but i felt so much more love out of him than out of my boyfriend of a year n a half.. any tips? :( 15/f
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hey girl, i think its time to move on. it seems like your bf isnt what your looking for anymore which is perfectly okay. i think by ending the relationship, it will allow you to find someone that you are truely happy with and you wont be stringing along your bf any longer.
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Maybe its time to move on...if you really feel this way its not fair to you or him to continue this relationship. If you're finding all these excuses such as finding an excuse to hang up or you would rather hang out with friends...it pretty much means just that. You can't make yourself love someone if you don't...you may not want to hurt him but you need to think about what you want as well. If you want to try to rekindle your relationship however bring back the memories of the past....create a first date or a very distinct memory in which you both enjoyed. Hope it works out!
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i have the same problem. the truth is ur bored with him. tell him you need a break and date other people for a while. if your feelings for him become strong again date him again:) everyone needs a break sometimes.
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If you no longer have feelings for your boyfriend than you at least owe it too him to tell him in person. A year and a half is a long time you two should at least have a strong enough relationship to at least communicate and tell each other how you feel. If you think you have fallen out of love than tell him. However 10 minutes is not long enough to fall in love with someone, Instead you could of just simply developed a crush. Do you know anything about this waiter? Does he have a girlfriend? If you love your boyfriend and really want to work thinks out with him than you need to talk to him. Tell him how you are feeling and think of ways that you two could work on it. Sometimes all a relationship needs is work, Everyone goes through it but communication is number one.
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If I were you, I would listen to my heart. I also would look at the pros and cons. I'm just saying, do what you feel in your heart.
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