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Haunting crush? (1)
A few months ago a friend i used to be closed to (i had a major crush on him & maybe again) tricked me by askin me out n not meaning it so i didnt talk to him for months or be nice with him. Hes a funny guy in 10th grade 1 year older than me & an inch short. Now he makes me laugh like he used to & tries to be around n talk to me more. Many people even my friends and his friends say that he could have liked me but was to afraid to admit it n because hes a little shorter than me....Could this be true? And what do i do....I like him...Again?
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Well friends don't treat you that way by tricking you and asking you out so you were right to ignore him. On the other hand what makes you think he won't do it again? He doesn't sound like a friend at all...kidding or not he shouldn't treat you the way he does its mental abuse. Move on and get a way from this guy he sounds like drama...and he did hurt you once whats not to say he won't do it again?
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I'm going to be really honest with you because I've been in some pretty similar situations.
I don't think he's that into you. It sounds like he really thinks of you as a close friend, someone he can joke around with and be himself with. I think that it's something he values, and he's trying to be that again with you, now that you've started speaking with him again.
I could be wrong, though -- being on the shorter side can be hard on a guy until he grows into himself. This might seem difficult, but why not just ask him? Say something like
"I'm really into you, do you feel the same way towards me?" and see how he reacts. If he seems a little uncomfortable, he might like you, and you would want to press a little further and maybe ask why he tricked you. If he cracks jokes or sort of brushes you off, I would say he thinks of you as a friend.
Whichever way he goes, at least you'd know. You have the upper hand, so if he rejects you, just tell him that's fine and move on. There's nothing more attractive than confidence.
Hope this helps.
<3 Pollux
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It could be...
That seems strange, I mean there is really nothing wrong with short guys.... :/ But after what he did to you the first time it does seem difficult to trust him. I'd say you should just see how things develop and if he asks you out again hopefully it will be for the right reason...If not, then you should definitely try to move on. You don't deserve to be toyed with! Good luck. I wish you the best!
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