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he doesnt talk to me anymore?!
okai so ever since i told this guy that i like him he doesnt talk to me anymore. he did the same with his ex after he broke up with her.
the thing is that we where really good friends before all that & he was actually leading me on as well?
but now he just doesnt talk to me anymore which makes me really depressed cause im still in love with him.
i tried talking to him again, i actually wrote him a text wishing him a nice weekend. and then he wrote back saying 'oh thanks to you too. how are you? what are you up to? we havent talked in a while... xo'
so then i wrote him back telling him what im up to & asking him how HE is etc and he wrote 'I'm good (...) we'll see eachother on monday! xo '
so yeah.. today i saw him & he didnt even look at me once. then later on i said hi & he said hi back but that was it.
& then he just stared at me when i was talking to his friend later on (hes also good friends with me) & then just walked by me again without looking at me again.
AND i also know that hes always stalking my myspace (dont ask how)
but he rejected me cause he still has feelings for his ex. i really dont understand this?!
what should i do now?
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Well it's not easy to do but you have to move on from this guy. You can still be friends but if you were friends before and he's acting like this now I wouldn't see him as much of a friend. Just do what he is doing to you except for the stalking part that's a little freaky just kind of ignore him. Hope all goes well!
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You know that movie? "He's Just Not That Into You". That's what this is. Don't do anything. You already did something. You told him how you felt. He stopped talking to you after that. To me that says he realized he may have been leading you on when you said that and now feels bad about leading you on any more, so he just stays away from you. Let him go and just accept this as another one of life's lessons. Sure, it hurts, but the hurt will go away and you will find someone else who can return your feelings and appreciate you for who you are. And you must be pretty remarkable, because it took guts in the first place to tell this guy how you felt. At least you know you're strong enough to take a risk. Let this one go. He's not interested. There's someone better out there for you.
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