Do you guys think he may like me? =3 (So long it'll knock your socks off!)
Question Posted Sunday November 15 2009, 10:37 pm
16/F
So, on with the story! On Halloween night, my friend threw this amazing party. It turned out we were going to watch a really scary movie. I don't do scary movies very well so I was a little bit nervous that I would scream my lungs out in front of everybody. Then a really nice thing happened. A guy that I'm friends with through my friend who threw the party came over to me. We've talked before and we see eachother at school all the time but we never really... "talked." He came over and said, "Don't worry, I don't really do scary movies either. If you want, we can hold on to eachother..." Of course I said yes and he was really sweet throughout the entire movie, and didn't make fun of me when I screamed like all the other kids did. At the end of the night when I had to leave he came up to me and hugged me really tight. The next day another friend came up to me and said "'D' doesn't hug anybody. What'd you do to him?" So life got really busy and he was in the school play and we really didn't have a lot of time to talk, nobody really did, until last night. Last night another one of our mutual friends had a birthday party. It was a bowling party and I suck at bowling. I pretty much gave up after one frame and went to talk to the other kids who didn't want to bowl. He followed me over there. We talked and talked and talked and all through the night. Every time I wasn't talking to him I'd catch him staring at me. Then he'd blush and turn away. The weird thig was, it was like talking to a male version of myself. We were so much alike it was uncanny. When it was time to go, my friend was giving us all in a ride home so we climbed into her van. It's massive but there were still about 13 of us crammed into it. With her being the driver, she decided who was going to sit where. It just so happened that the guy and I had to sit on the floor, facing eachother. He pulled out his iPod and I was like, "Oh no, don't disappear into your own little world!" and he goes, "Oh, haha, I wasn't. I was going to give you a bud." I have really weird shaped ears and earbuds never seem to fit right. I was struggling and he goes, "Here, let me put it in. I just got to get a little closer..." He got close and put the bud in my ear so it actually stayed. This is the funny part. The song he put on was a song from my favorite band. A highly obscure band that nobody I've ever talked to has ever heard of. It was great. We sang all the lyrics and had a great ride home. At the end he hugged me and went off.
Guys, do you think he likes me? I'm not sure if he was being friendly and nice or flirting with me. If you do think he likes me, how do you suppose I go about maybe asking him out?
Thanks so much, I really appreciate your answers!
wisemen answered Sunday November 15 2009, 11:18 pm: I'm a guy and it's obvious he likes you. You both like the same bands, he hugs you and he never hugs anyone else, and you think of him as yourself, just as a guy though. To ask him out I would try and find a song put it on your phone or mp3 and tell him this is how i feel about you and see where it goes. Hope all goes well! [ wisemen's advice column | Ask wisemen A Question ]
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