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Sex.
So, I'm fifteen & female. for the first time last weekend, my boyfriend and i had oral sex both ways. LIke he gave me oral & i have him oral. After it though, i felt like reeeeeal dirty. I mean, is that slutty or anything? I'm only fifteen and it just doesn't even feel right. Or is that normal the first time haha...I don't know, let me know, thank youu.
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Wow your young! Yeah I've actually heard of people taking a shower after doing it every time. But no, I wouldn't say your slutty. It's your boyfriend and not some random dude.
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dottie4
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first of all .. everyones diffrent and well yeah some girls may feel dirty its probably because youve lost your virginity and you know you will never be able to claim that back and well your in a relationship so it wouldnt make you slutty or anything everyones diffrent and ready at diffrent times and just remember you have all your life to have sex and make sure your doing it with someone you love and care for and most of all that your ready cause if you having doubts about it you havent reached that emotional stage in life and you shouldnt rush into things even if it is with someone your in a relationship with well hope my advice helps .
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I would have to say no, that is not slutty or hoeish cause that is your bf. :) So don't feel like that.
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Well in my opinion it is probablly not going to feel right at 15. Yes the first time it does feel a little dirty but it also feels right. If it didnt feel right its my advice to wait and just let him know your not ready or you are going to feel really bad about yourself.
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Let's face it, there's pressure to have sex just so you can have sex. That's the peer pressure thing. There's pressure to have sex because your boyfriend wants it so bad and he can get it somewhere else if you don't give it to him. Then there's the whole curious thing. Because it felt wrong, it was wrong. Guys are just a walking bag of hormones with a willy that leads them to any available hole. Sex should never make you feel bad about yourself. Tell him that that one time was the last time. If he makes a big deal about it, tell him to talk to you after he's spanked his monkey. If he still trys to demand sex, he's outahere. You're more than just a hole.
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That's a normal age, but if you don't feel right about it, that's normal too. Never do something you don't want to, but don't worry about what happened.
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