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My boyfriend called me immature
Well he is actually my ex boyfriend. I wasn't aware that I was immature. But he says that I behave like I am 10 years old sometimes (not always). That's not why he left me. He just sees me as a friend now. I am 16 years old and have never been called immature :(. Any ideas?
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well i wouldnt take it to heart because sometimes people say things to hurt you and you take it to heart if your 16 you still have a lot to learn this doesnt make you immature your just going through teenage stages and maturity comes with experience and well i know me at the age of 16 i had a good head on my shoulders so i doubt he s telling the truth and if you yourself think that then best thing to do is not change but just look at things a little bit diffrently than which you normally would hope my advice works .
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Either he's the only one that finds you immature, or other people also think you are but he's the only one who had the balls to tell you.
Either way, do you behave like you're 10? I think if you are, you should probably remember that there's a time & place to be goofy and that there's also a time & place to be serious. However, you need to evaluate when those times/places are. There's also certain situations to be mature in.
Say someone says they dislike you. An immature response would be: "Well, good, because I don't like you either." A mature response would be: "That's fine. You don't have to like me, and I accept that you don't. I respect that you told me personally rather than telling someone else."
You see? So, just remember that & you'll be more mature in no time. BUT, also remember that you're 16 and it's okay to act like a kid sometimes. But just know that you'll be an adult soon so you'll need to act like it as well.
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I wouldn't listen to him as long as you know your not immature then i think you'll be fine if it makes you feel any better i get called immature too expect by my mother which i think is worst :)
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Your ex obviously doesn't accept you for who you really are someone that likes to have fun once and a while even if it is childish. I guarantee you're mature it's just your not ready to let go of being a kid yet its kool don't freak about it. Hope all goes well!
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