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How can you love someone you hate?
ok so me and this guy dated last year 3 times. he dumped me the first 2 times for other girls but he would always lie to me and make up excuses. the last time we dated he had been begging to get me back for a while but i kept saying no. a few months later i decided to date him again because yes i loved him. after only 2 days he managed to screw up AGAIN! he was texting this other chick and long story short i found out about it. i asked him about it and told him not to lie to me. he told me he liked her but not as much as me. i said thats okay and thanked him for being honest. but he said he still dosn't know what to do. i was like well if you like me more then whats there to figure out? eventually i was just so fed up i dumped him before he could dump me. after that i found out that he was talking alot of crap about me. that was it i made it very clear (again)to NOT EVER text me and that i hate him. he is the only person i have every hated like that. this was a pretty long time ago but i still think about him every day. also i see him alot whenever i go places like football games, the movies, etc. i hate that my heart still skips a beat whenever i think about him and that i about melt whenever i see him but i cant help it. i miss him so much but i hate him at the same time. i try dating other people and forgetting all about him but at the end of the day he is the only guy im really thinking about.. what should i do?
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To tell you the truth, Love is only strong when the two of you have the same passionate feelings for each other. If only one person loves, then the relationship is just useless because one person is passionate while the other one is like "whatever." You will only get heart broken in the process if you go back to that relationship again. Just move on. There are a lot of fishes in the sea. You'll find the right person if you're patient.
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