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Christmas Wish.
Posted Sunday November 22 2009, 9:18 pm
Almost a year ago I was feeling down and sad because I couldn't find the right guy. Relationship after relationship failed. I seemed to go for all the wrong guys; abusive, convicts (nothing against them), drunks, etc. So one day, out of despair, I came here and posted this:
http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=555294
I just wanted to let everyone know that my wish came true. For those with my same wish, don't give up! That perfect someone is just right around the corner waiting for you! Maybe you won't find him/her today or tomorrow or in 6 months but there's someone out there for everyone. And if you do find someone you think is worth keeping, HOLD ON! Love is always worth the effort. I really hope this hel...
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married man
Posted Sunday November 22 2009, 7:35 pm
I am 17 and seeing an older man hes twenty five and hes married is that bad...?
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a girl i am mad about
Posted Sunday November 22 2009, 6:49 pm
i am 15 and there is a girl in my school that i am mad about we used to be freinds when we were younger but we both started to hang with diffrent people and just forgot about eachother and then in comp we got put in the same science class and now she is all i can think about and she is my first love two i have never had felling not even sexuall atraction to anyone else so i put my heart on the line and told her how i feel and she says i dont know you to talk to anymore and tbh i do not wont to so if you really do love me just try and leave me alon so i have but my fellings for her are starting to get me really down and my hole life is being affected froom it freinds, family, school grades and even my looks are suffering i have given up all gum and hair care thing ect.
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he said 'i love you' during sex
Posted Sunday November 22 2009, 12:31 pm
19/f
My boyfriend and I were having sex before bed the other night and he said 'i love you'. He's the type to talk dirty and usually loudly, which he had been, and then between kisses he kind of muttered 'i love you' and i guess the time it took me to sort of freak out in my head was too long of a wait for him and he resumed his loud dirty talk. Unfortunately, i said 'i love you too' at the same time and am unsure if he heard me reply. This could mean one of two things, he didn't hear me and thinks i don't mean it, or he did hear me and is possibly freaking out because it was a slip of the tongue.
If he had said it prior to this situation, I wouldn't be freaking out as much, but it's because it was the first time we...
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confused.
Posted Sunday November 22 2009, 10:45 am
I'm 14f and i really like this guy, we were talking last week about it and he told me he liked me, so i told him i liked him too. Since then, he's never even mentioned it. And lately, when i talk you him on msn, he's become kind of... unresponsive? I really have no clue about what's going on.
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How should I do this?
Posted Sunday November 22 2009, 10:09 am
There's a guy that was once interested in me but then he kinda jumps around and is interested in everyone ,because he's not good looking so he tries to get what he can.I'm actually out of his league,but looks don't matter to me.He is a really nice kid and we talk daily for like 3 hours and hangout all the time,but I don't know if he likes me because I think he knows I like him and he hasn't asked me out obviously.My friend is like best friends with him and he told my friend that he likes girls that don't pay any attention to him,and obviously I do.How do I go about paying little attnetion to him and still showing interest? Everytime we hangout he always tries to hit on new people or my friends and it pisses me off because he always talks to...
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Looking at me while dancing with another girl? Help please
Posted Saturday November 21 2009, 10:22 pm
So I've liked this kid, let's call him Chris, for about three months. I talk to him every day in math class, and we seem to get along pretty well. Last night, there was a dance at my school. A girl, call her Melissa, was dancing all slut-like with him (and pretty much every other guy). At one point, they were next to me dancing said slut-dance. While they were dancing, I glanced over at Chris and he was looking right at me. We made eye contact for a few seconds, and I know I should have held it longer, but I'm shy, so I looked down and away. This happened again about a minute later. To me at least, it wasn't normal eye contact. It was probably just a normal glance to Chris, but it made me catch my breath and when I think about it I get a wa...
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am i a booty call?
Posted Saturday November 21 2009, 6:12 pm
okay so i was at my friend's house and her boyfriend was over and his friend was over too. we were watching a movie and his friend (we'll call him mitch) came and sat by me. halfway thru the movie his put his arm around me and like..rubbed his foot on mine. after the movie he said he had to go to sleep cuz he had to work in the morning. he left and then 5 min. later he came back and asked if i wanted to go lay down with him..and...well the bad thing is i did but nothing happened..we just cuddled. i dont even kno his last name. :/ missa 15/f
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How do i answer him???
Posted Saturday November 21 2009, 10:11 am
I am 15f. there is a guy 16 who told me he liked me. We have been 'talking' and when i mean talking its only through texts. We will see eachother at school and he doesnt say anything to me and i think it is because he is shy about it. well, just yesterday he asked me to be his girlfriend. i said tha i need to think about it beccause we barely even talk to eachother when i do see him and i just need to get more used to hime. well i hear all of this stuff about him and i guess our school slut. my friend saw him sitting on her lap (they are in the same grade) and idk if they r friends or not but i knoew they r not that close. then another day, we were all in the library and my other friend got his phone and looked through it seeing messages fo...
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confidence builder!!!
Posted Saturday November 21 2009, 12:59 am
19- FEMALE.
i'm basically in a very confusing situation, which shouldn't even be that hard in the first place! i've never had an actual boyfriend, i've had flings with guys but i've always been the one to break it off. guys are the ones who always text me, i usually don't have to text them which is a good thing for me. that all changed when i met this guy about 4yrs ago. you'd probably think i'd be really comfortable with him by now right? naaahh. he's the only guy that i can't build myself up to even ask him to hang out because i'm scared of rejection. not so much rejection, just the fact that he'd be busy and i'd sound dumb. i could ask any other guy to hang out and wouldn't care if they couldn't it'd be no big deal but not...
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wtf
Posted Saturday November 21 2009, 12:47 am
I am angry. I'm sure there are more girls out there who are as angry out there as I am. I am 17. I am so sick of pussy hungry guys. Why does it seem like now days all guys want is sex. They can't stick with one girl for at least a month. Its like, they can't ever get enough pussy at all. I am just sick of it. It's just so selfish and pig like. What is happening? It just seems to get worse every year. I know not all guys are like this, but most of them are...ew...its so irritating! I just want to hear your opinions guys/girls, what you think about what i'm saying.
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Posted Friday November 20 2009, 11:32 pm
im a girl dating this girl and i broke up with her a few days ago because i felt i wanted something else. now we are back together. a guy asked me if we had broken up like he was interested in me today. then we talked later on the computer and he was like 'i think youre cute and i want to have some fun(sex) with you'. i had a little crush on him before today. ha and actually thought about having sex with him. we both dont like commitment much. he just broke off a long distance relationship. he wants to have a relationship with no strings attached? what sounds like a rational response to this situation? go out with him and dump the girl or does he sound like a decent guy? i find him very sexy so its very tempting for me.
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Theres nothing I can do...HELP!!??
Posted Friday November 20 2009, 10:25 pm
Hello Alright so this may be quiet long so I'm sorry if it is. Alright so I live in Colorado and the guy I have been chattting with for like the last month lives back home in Germany. I am going to Germany in December and me and him have been talking about finally meeting. Please dont lecture me about internet dating please. Past that..anyways everything has been going good. We talked every night and we have been having fun. Recently we have been getitng intimate and I told him my rule about like sex..I have to be in a relationship..anwyays it seemed fine with him and we kept talking becuase he had told me already he liked me. We are only able to talk when he is at work becuase that is the only place he is able to get internet connection. S...
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cheating on me, but dont wana break up?
Posted Friday November 20 2009, 10:11 pm
my boyfriend of almost two years cheats on me daily with my "best friend" and they both have the fucking nerve to deny it. which i just found out today. i love him for some strange reason, hes helped me threw so much he was there for me through my cancer and mental schizo rehab and many deaths and has always ben by my side i dont wana let him go but i dont think i can cry anymore, i want to stay with him but i dont? i dont know how to live without him.. what do i do, with explanation or try and convince me or something please :( iv had an extremely hard life im bad at letting go of ppl i love, were both almost 16
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Iam tired ot my mom!
Posted Friday November 20 2009, 8:39 pm
my mom treats me like iam a baby. I really like this guy named paul he goes to church and when I told him that I needed to think before I went out with him when he asked me out he said take all the time you need that right there shows that he is a good guy but I live with my mom and iam not about to live one my own becout iam learning disabled and I have mental health problems and plus I would probally blow all my moneh and wouldn't have any money to spend on bills so that is iam stuck liviving with my mom becouse iam not capable of living on my own so please don't tell me I can move out becouse I can't. So how can I convince my mom that he his a good guy without her having to meet him becouse the last time she met one of my boyfriends she ...
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confusing guy
Posted Friday November 20 2009, 4:59 pm
So here's the story...I really just don't know what to think of it all...we are both sophmores in college fyi.
After i broke up with my boyfriend of 6months..because it was a long distance relationship that really wasnt working out anymore...I started hanging out with this new guy. we were hanging out at least 4 nights a week plus seeing eachother & hanging out at parties on the weekend. when we hung out it was just watching movies sitting around..nothing fancy. every once in a while we messed around alittle bit..but not very much. most of the time it was just talking and cuddling..once in awhile we'd spend the night together. after about a month of this he took me to dinner on a friday night. we went to a school basketball game...
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prenuptual agreement
Posted Friday November 20 2009, 11:59 am
The man I want to marry wants a prenup. He has been married 2 times before and both of his wifes left him. He says that I dont trust him but doesnt a prenup say that he doesnt trust me to?
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i love you, awkward silence, random question = wtf
Posted Friday November 20 2009, 8:35 am
okay so, boy crisis.. last night i was with my boyfriend and we were umm, awkward sorry, being intimate lets just say, and well obviously i wasnt completely paying attention to what he was saying but then all of a sudden i heard, or at least i thought i heard him say "i love you" so i was like 'omg omg omg' in my head and said it back, cause well, i kinda do..though i did so rather quietly, but then he said/asked me something random that made me think he didnt actually say it..so now i'm really freaking out for many reasons..
1. did he say it!?
2. if he did, did he hear me or said the random something to avoid the silence and non-response?
3. if he didn't, did he hear me say it, and that's why he said ...
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Which twin do I choose?
Posted Friday November 20 2009, 4:34 am
OK. Well i've been tlkn to Rab for almost 1 year and 1/2 now and its come to my attention that his twin brother has been admiring me ever since me & Rab met. Well, over the time i've grown feelings for Jo(his brother) and idk wat to do. I still love Rab, but not being able to see him is killing me. Jo promises to come around if we get together, but thats also wat Rab promised me when we first met and here we are 1 year and 1/2 later and we still haven't met. Over all this time i've been getting tired of waiting and feel like i'm ready for a new relationship, but i dont wanna break Rab's heart. Especially, by dating his twin brother.....he says if Jo makes me happy then I should go for it. But when he told me that I didn't entirely belie...
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so confused.. please help.
Posted Thursday November 19 2009, 10:59 pm
13 almost 14f
wow i have too many guys on my mind!! i still like my 2nd most recent ex, im in love with another ex, i REALLY REALLY like my boyfriend, and i have feelings for this other dude at my school!!! ughh i just don't know what i can do to get them off my mind. it seems like more guys just keep getting added to my confusion... any ideas??
thanks,
utterly confused chick
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