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Theres nothing I can do...HELP!!??


Question Posted Friday November 20 2009, 10:25 pm

Hello Alright so this may be quiet long so I'm sorry if it is. Alright so I live in Colorado and the guy I have been chattting with for like the last month lives back home in Germany. I am going to Germany in December and me and him have been talking about finally meeting. Please dont lecture me about internet dating please. Past that..anyways everything has been going good. We talked every night and we have been having fun. Recently we have been getitng intimate and I told him my rule about like sex..I have to be in a relationship..anwyays it seemed fine with him and we kept talking becuase he had told me already he liked me. We are only able to talk when he is at work becuase that is the only place he is able to get internet connection. So on Sunday I figured he was busy becuase he wasn't talking much, but we did talk and it was just pretty intimate and fun as usual. Usually I do see him but I guess like I said that night he was busy...but when he left he didn't even say goodbye. It has been a week now since I've talked to him, he said he was off for a few days but now Im just worried. I'm scared that he's lost interest in me or something ebcause I thought I heard he would only be gone for a couple of days...but I'm just scared theres no way I can contac him..what do I do?? I'm just scared he lost interest in me...please help Thank you

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sunshine1232 answered Saturday November 21 2009, 8:22 am:
I wouldn't jump to conclusions i'd wait and be patient give him the benefit of the doubt he could be busy working i don't think he'd abandon you after you two agreeded to meet one another and
since you've been talking think positively thinking negatively will only make the situation worst also you'll make yourself feel worst i'm sure once he has some free time he'll find some way to contact you you've just got to continue living life and find some things to keep yourself busy so you aren't thinking about it :)

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brie answered Saturday November 21 2009, 5:57 am:
Hey calm down and take a deep breath, things were going fine with you guy's, there is no reason for him to walk away. he had a few day's off and maybe took a cold and hasn't been able to come to work, give him a little time and i'm sure he will contact you. And you sound so afraid it worries me take a step back and go do something fun with a friend you need to get your mind on something else.

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