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cheating on me, but dont wana break up?
my boyfriend of almost two years cheats on me daily with my "best friend" and they both have the fucking nerve to deny it. which i just found out today. i love him for some strange reason, hes helped me threw so much he was there for me through my cancer and mental schizo rehab and many deaths and has always ben by my side i dont wana let him go but i dont think i can cry anymore, i want to stay with him but i dont? i dont know how to live without him.. what do i do, with explanation or try and convince me or something please :( iv had an extremely hard life im bad at letting go of ppl i love, were both almost 16
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You deserve way better than that!
No girl should be treated than that, maybe he has helped you through a lot of things but it's time for you to end it with him. It's not right what he is doing to you and your friend,dump her to (from being your friend.) don't let people do that to you stick up for yourself and stay true to yourself. God created you to live your life with a Man that will take care of you and respect your wishes. Don't waist your time with a guy that doesn't car about you, i hate to say it but he is obviously over you. YOU DESERVE BETTER! You are young in high school or middle school and relationships should be that LAST thing on your mind. Have fun with a bunch of friends and you can have a crush, but nothing past that don't wast your time on little boys. Wait for the right one.
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I'm apologize if I sound harsh..
This bonehead obviously doesn't give a rats tail about you because if he really is cheating on you than you KNOW you deserve better. He just wants to keep your around and you are just staying because you probably think you can't find anyone else. Just get rid of him because you are only a kid..you have your whole life ahead of you and there is a guy that will treat you as well as you deserve. And I know letting your first love go but everyone goes through it and you will find someone..I took a while to get over my ex and now I met someone who makes me happy. Let this moron go because he will do nothing but keep hurting you if you stay wit him...let him go you know you deserve better ;)
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Are you CERTAIN he's cheating and it's not just your insecurities niggling at you?
If you're positive, then you must break up ASAP.
Yeah, he's been there for you through the hard times, but most people would do that.. I'm sure you have other friends you can turn to when you need them, right?
If he's been cheating on you this long, every day, why would you want to trust him ever again? Why would you want someone like that so share your problems and help you through them.. Let alone be intimate with you.
This boy clearly knows how much of a hard life you've had and if he can cheat on you, he clearly really has no heart and obviously doesn't know the meaning of love.
End your relationship, because once cheating starts, it's already dead. Give yourself time to get over him and find a boy who will treat you how you deserve to be treated. He will come sooner or later.
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You need to break up with him.
There are two possibilities here:
One, he's not actually cheating and you simply don't trust him at all.
Two, he IS cheating and lying to you about it.
Either way, you can't be with this person. You can't be in a relationship with someone you don't even trust that much, and you can't be in a relationship with someone who lies to you. So, either way, I'm sorry, this is over. Even if you kept trying to be with him, unless he was, at the very least, honest and apologetic about the cheating, it would only be pretend.
Nothing anyone can say can make it hurt less, but don't pretend this is something it isn't. End it now.
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