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i love you, awkward silence, random question = wtf
okay so, boy crisis.. last night i was with my boyfriend and we were umm, awkward sorry, being intimate lets just say, and well obviously i wasnt completely paying attention to what he was saying but then all of a sudden i heard, or at least i thought i heard him say "i love you" so i was like 'omg omg omg' in my head and said it back, cause well, i kinda do..though i did so rather quietly, but then he said/asked me something random that made me think he didnt actually say it..so now i'm really freaking out for many reasons..
1. did he say it!?
2. if he did, did he hear me or said the random something to avoid the silence and non-response?
3. if he didn't, did he hear me say it, and that's why he said the random something cause he doesn't?
4. i can't just ask him "hey, did you say 'i love you' last night?"
5. did i just completely scew myself over with this!?
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heyy there,:)
ok this is an awkward situation! I had a similar experience with an ex we were doing the same and I thought I heard him whisper or mouth i love you,I didnt respond though just pretended I didnt hear,ha ok anyway.
I can see your probably killing yourself replaying what happend and trying to figure it out so I would say to you honestly to avoid the sheer awkwardness of bringing it up just let it go stop torturing your mind over it.
If he said it quietly he probably didnt have the guts to say it out loud yet,so chances are he will say it again,if he didnt say it well then he will say it eventually and if he did great it will happen again :)
look at it that way and just completely put it out of your head unless he brings it up again :)
Hope I helped! dont stress yourself,
Much <3
Jess 16/f
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Divine...
so im checkin out your situation...and yeah your in a pretty bad situation so as for us girls this is where we weight our options....
you either
1. ask him " and yes I know you can't do that but that the whole point of being mature and not shy about it".
2. you can right him a note and just bring it up
EX: say one or groups of your friends was talking bout the subject of love and you was wondering is there a chance that we caould be.
3.or you can just leave it where it is at " by not saying nothing and just question in your mind what was said and move on from it
however if you do feel the way that you do for him
then you should feel comfotable with just asking him straight up but explain to him so he won't get to thinking the wrong Idea....
Divine
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