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How should I do this?
There's a guy that was once interested in me but then he kinda jumps around and is interested in everyone ,because he's not good looking so he tries to get what he can.I'm actually out of his league,but looks don't matter to me.He is a really nice kid and we talk daily for like 3 hours and hangout all the time,but I don't know if he likes me because I think he knows I like him and he hasn't asked me out obviously.My friend is like best friends with him and he told my friend that he likes girls that don't pay any attention to him,and obviously I do.How do I go about paying little attnetion to him and still showing interest? Everytime we hangout he always tries to hit on new people or my friends and it pisses me off because he always talks to me soooo much and I just don't know why he's not flirting with me.I don't really flirt with him solemnly for that fact.Yet sometimes he flirts with me on IM and one of his friends always tells me to hookup with him,so i'm getting mixed feelings everywhere.help!
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Play the game. He is probably taking you for granted because you always express interest in him. Just for a week ignore him resist any urges to call/ text him and act like you are not interested. Don't give him the validation he wants which is that you will always be there for him and flatter him. Just b humbled by him and don't express interest for a while and trust me if u are out of his leaugue he will miss that attention and he will be begging for it. It's all about ego with guys and sometimes u gotta tear it up
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I know a girl that is just like this guy ...
Well the person before me mentioned, self-confidence issues and that is totally true, and it doesn't have to be looks the problem of his lack of confidence but it's a possibilities.
It's nice to hear that you don't mind that you're out of his league but the problem is he might mind, like once this guy was way out of my league and when he said he likes me I didn't believe him. So you have to make it clear to him that you absolutely like him and that you don't care about the whole looks issue.
The whole attention thing, is misunderstood. Well guys best part of getting a girl is the chase or you can call it hunt, so that's what he means. He doesn't want a girl to give in to him, he wants someone hard to get but that doesn't mean you have to show him that you don't like him.
Here is what you should do...
You talk three hours a day, well while you guys are talking randomly say "Wait, I will call you back, This really cute guy just signed in on msn" or "This really cute guy is calling on my cell" and call him after like 30 minutes, while telling him something like "Oh my god this guy is so adorable"
Like don't completely ignore him but make him feel like you are hard to get
Like mention something along the lines of "This guy thinks he can get me easily haha"
And when he flirts with girls, don't frown but play hard like flirt obviously with guys in front of him and from time to time flirt with him randomly and when you feel he is getting into it, just leave, make up an excuse like you need to use the bathroom and keep him hanging so he thinks your not interested but then ask him out on a friendly date to a movie with an excuse your dying to see this movie that just came out. And then hook up with him and the next day act as if nothing happened and if he didn't ask you out then that's where you have to grow some balls and ask him out. Hehe.
Good Luck =]
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If you're clearly "out of his league", my guess is that he's intimidated by you. If he has self-confidence issues, then he probably wonders what you see in him and thinks he's not good enough. Make sure he sees that you're not interested in other better-looking guys and that you think he's a great person. Rather than bending over backwards for his attention, just find ways to compliment him when the two of you hang out. Being real and genuine is the easiest way to get the guy!
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