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I am 17 and seeing an older man hes twenty five and hes married is that bad...?
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Well, as many of people said before me, yes it's bad. If he is hitting on you, he's most likely thinking only one thing, young and sexy. Don't fall for it. He's married too, Don't get involved. Now if you were 20 and he was 26. It's bee a little different because your over the legal age and everything.
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Obviously you know it's wrong if you came here to ask. We're just telling you what you already know.
But yes, it's very bad. It's illegal for you to be involved with him. You're 17 years old, and that makes you a minor. He's 25 meaning he's well over the age of being an adult.
And he's married. He's clearly not faithful, and can't respect a commitment he's made. You're getting in between him & his wife. I think you really need to think about not only the law in this situation, but his wife as well. If you were married, would you want some 17 year old girl involved with your husband? How would it make you feel to know that someone who is supposed to love you, and spend their life with you would rather be with someone who's illegal? It would suck huh?
Stop the relationship with him. He has a lot of issues to work out, and you can both get into serious trouble if the law gets in the middle of it.
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Why would you ask that? You know it's wrong, and there's not even any advice you're asking for...
Anyone could tell you that an 8 year age difference when you're under 18 is illegal, regardless of which state you're in. Anyone could also tell you that seeing someone who's married is wrong.
You don't need advicenators to tell you this.
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Yes it is. Plus it's illegal until your 18. That's sick and disgusting.
xoxo,
dottie4
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Yes. It basically means he is not faithful in his relationships. You wouldn't want to go through that girl!!!!
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I agree with Rahzie
1. You are 17 years old, You are not even legally an adult and you are involved with a man that is 25 years of age.
2. This man is a married man who can't keep a commitment and is willing to risk everything he has like his wife and family. Therefore he can't be completely sane either
3. You two are in completely different stages in your lives, You are young. This man obviously has a lot of mental issues to risk having a relationship with someone not only the age of 17 but again he is a married man. You have a relationship with this man puts you in a very dangerous situation mentally, physically and possible legally.
Becoming involved with someone who is married is technically wrong, You are getting yourself in a load of drama. This man had made a commitment when he married and for him to break it with having another relationship is only a huge mound of stress waiting to pile up. If he were to have a relationship with you he looks at possible jail time, I can't promise you eyes won't look your way, People won't gossip and fingers won't point. Do yourself a favor and stay away from this situation. This man is married and isn't sane in the head.
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Yes.
Bad, wrong, dangerous and in some states, illegal.
I have a feeling you probably already know this isn't okay. Most reasonably intelligent people know that dating a married person is wrong. The difference in age, only makes it even more DANGEROUS for you, emotionally and physically.
Not to mention, a married 25 year old who is cheating with a 17 year old is definitely NOT a fabulous human being who makes good choices. At best, he is dumbass who is currently making craptastic decisions in his personal life. You are 17, and you shouldn't have to bear his stupidity or his mistakes.
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