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Ex boyfriend
Posted Wednesday December 30 2009, 2:40 am
I am 16 female.. I dated this guy for just under a year he dumped me because there was rumors atschool that I was cheating so he dumped me even though I wasn't cheating.. My problem now is we have been apart for basically two months we have talked a bit decently but we always end up yelling and getting Mad but we have both aknowledged that we still have feelings for eachcother... I can't stop thinking of him he meant everything to me and was my life we had been through a lot together his name is in my doodles he's in my dreams please someone is this normal or is something wrong with me please help before I go crazy. -sleepiesheep
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Boyfriend at 13?
Posted Tuesday December 29 2009, 11:51 pm
I'm 13 - girl. I want a boyfriend but i can'not get one. I know there is nothing wrong with ME, because i am beautiful (not in the shallow way)lol. People tell me to join clubs or something to meet them. I don't want to go out with anyone in the schools because they are pervs!
Another question for guys is, at the age of 13, do boys ONLY care about what you look like? Everyone tells me that and it makes me mad! GRRRRRR! lol.
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broken friendship
Posted Tuesday December 29 2009, 3:34 pm
i have this friend we were bestfriends but then we fell for the same guy he was are buddy but then i told her how i feel about him and she saide she only likes him as a friend then out of nowhere she told me that she loved him and then he told me the samething about her i told them i was ok with it but the truth is that it killed me inside then they started going out and i feel bad cause all i wanted is for them to break up and when they did she called me crying but i didnt care i was just happy they were over and i think shes mad at me cause she doesnt even talk to me its like she hates me but i dont think she has a right to hate me its not like i broke them up i just dont know wat to do should i feel guilty
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break up....
Posted Tuesday December 29 2009, 1:19 pm
i was in love...scratch that...i AM in love.. completely head over heels...and i know it wasn't infatuation, it was love. and to top it all it was my first love. this guy was amazing and treated me like a princess...like it sounds corny but i felt like i could fly when i was with him. we dated for over a year then like a couple months before we broke up, he just changed...he would blow me off to do absolutely nothing...then he dumped me because he said it wasn't fair to me, which i agree...but i have this hole in my heart and it won't go away...and its been 3 months since we broke up...
he also tells me he doesn't believe in love lasting forever. his parents are getting divorced so i could see where he's coming from, i think ...
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My Crush...is it a good crush?
Posted Tuesday December 29 2009, 5:15 am
I have a crush who doesn't like me. He doesn't even talk to me. And I'm just too shy to talk to me. He is part of the "gang". And the gang makes fun of people, like me. My Crush won't even add me on facebook. Theres nothing really that I love about him, except that he's handsome. Not really handsome. But Joe Jonas is way handsomer. :) If my crush won't even talk to me, add me on facebook and be nice to me. Is he a good choice? Because I only like him because hes handsome. And I also want to stop liking him. There are other guys in my school who are kinder than him but not so handsome. Any ways I could stop liking him? Im really obsessed by the way. If I see a letter of his first name...I go crazy! I also tend to stare at him a lot...
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Is using a condom almost 100% safe?
Posted Tuesday December 29 2009, 4:47 am
Hi,
I was looking at stuff online and was really surprised to find all this conflicting information on the effectiveness of condoms. My girlfriend doesn't take the pill so I've been using condoms.
She's not goin on the pill since she's from another country and only here temporarily. I only use the latex ones too.
So if I use non-outdated condoms, and put it on correctly and at the end it doesn't tare or anything and after inspecting it before throwing it away I see that no semen is leaking out somehow then shouldn't the chances of her getting pregnant be close to zero?! I hope so anyway...
I'd like to hear what others think about this.
Thanks a bunch-
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waiting too long? (this post iis tooooTOOOlong) tehe
Posted Tuesday December 29 2009, 2:25 am
dear reader!!! tehe
okay so I've been dating this guy for almost a year and he hasn't asked me to be his girlfriend yet. i mean i don't want to ask him because that would be weird...
me: "would you be my boyfriend?"
him: "uhhh...isn't it my job to ask?"
SEEEE ITSSS WEIRD!!!! okay i know i should just grow some balls and ask him but i established that we were dating so its his turn!!! and its not like he doesn't love me...right? right?!?!? RIGHTT?!?!!?!??!?!!?? well he told me yesterday that he was falling in love with me (AWWWWWWWWWWWW) (throws up) tehehe jk. but yeah so i don't think love is the problem...but i don't know if i should wait it out or just ask him...i mean i real...
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things to make my girlfriend feel good
Posted Tuesday December 29 2009, 12:58 am
what are some things i could do to my girlfriend to make her feel good or tingle while we're making out, i already kiss her neck and squeeze/rub her a$$, she says that that feels nice, so what else could i do, she doesnt really like me playing with her boobs much so anything other than that would be great haha
thanks.
oh ive started breathing heavily in her ear aswell, that makes her tingle alot :)
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boys boys boys
Posted Monday December 28 2009, 8:23 pm
ok sooo i have a bf and i love him..we have been datin for 1yr..weve beenthrough everything together...but heres the thing...there are to other guys that like me....and i might like them...i get butterflies in my stomach when im around them...and i dont know wat to do??? plz help!?!!?
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the last time we talked he was drunk, and that was last weekend
Posted Monday December 28 2009, 6:47 pm
I'm an 18 year old girl crushing on a 21 year old guy. As a result of this crush, I decided to ask him if he wanted to hang out with me back in November, in order to see if he was interested in me. He said, “yeah,” and he seemed really interested, even asking me what I liked to do on the weekends. He currently doesn't have a phone, so we exchanged AIM screen names. We met each other through a class that we both took.
I thought that he was really interested in me. We'd always be talking every time we got to see each other. And some people in our class would tease us at times. Like for instance, we didn't show up to class on the same day, and one girl said, “So, what were you guys doing?” And, he showed concern when a b...
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Confusing....(kind of long)
Posted Monday December 28 2009, 6:21 pm
OKay so i like this guy, hes 17 and im 14 (im not big on ages, i dont think they matter) and hes a senior, im a freshmen..and he has a girlfriend of 2 years steady and 1 year of on and off. So i met him when we both started staying after for a sport. im the manager-type person and we started talking on the bus. well after a while i started likeing him, as well as he likeing me. Well then he started sitting right next to me like, on the same seat and after a couple days of still talking...he kissed me. and i loved it. so after that, on the bus he would always give me little goodbye kisses and i loved them. Then one weekend i was walking over to my friends house who lives very close and i find out he lives right by here so i start kind of han...
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hurt lover or friend
Posted Monday December 28 2009, 6:01 pm
we would be togeather all the time it would drive my dad crazy we would wacth moves till 2.00 am we would fall asleep in the same bed holding hands he would tell me every thing but then he started going out with my bestfriend one day when we were all togeather he told me he loved me and when him and my other friend broke up i would be his next girlfriend then we started to kiss over and over but he was drunk when he told me this they broke up but me and him never happend we dont even talk any more i just dont know what to do
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msn talking? it's long but bare with me please.
Posted Monday December 28 2009, 5:01 pm
ohkay so my aunts a hairstylist and she has this one costomer thats my age. he comes once every 2 weeks and shes been casually talking to him. she thinks hes a good guy and my perfect match. so she was telling me about him and he sounds perfect. so i asked a friend to fcb him so i kan see how he looks like (i don't have fcb) i saw a pik and i must say hes sooo cute. i saw that he has msn and since i do i added him. i pretended the whole i added the wrong person etc etc. and then i was like anyways my names lilly and the conversation went on. i thoughtt it was pretty descent and casual oh lets not forget when we started talking i put the best pikture of me i could find on my display pikture. and then he asked me if i had fcb. i said no and n...
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Old fashioned...
Posted Monday December 28 2009, 2:17 pm
Hey, im asking for opinions here. Im not mean, just VERY old fasioned, because thats the way my family raised me. I think the man should pay for most dates, and the woman should be shorter than the man. Of course i have paid for some dates with my boyfriend, but i think its wrong to have the woman pay most times, and i have dated 2 guys that were shorter than me, and they were great guys, but i perfer to date guys who are taller than me. What do you guys think?
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troubles with love
Posted Monday December 28 2009, 11:26 am
Hello this is my problem I have two teen boys and me and my wife are still in to love makeing but she don't like to make love because the boys are all ways around and she thinks they will hear us.I ask her all the time do you want to go to a motel she says on.Should i just go around her back and get a room at the motel and tell her i got a room i don't no what should i do?
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second date
Posted Monday December 28 2009, 10:45 am
I went on my first date with a guy a few days ago; we saw Sherlock Holmes. We made out a few times during the movie :). So this guy and I have become close because he's been (suspended) from college for the first semester, but he'll be going back in about a month (I'm in high school).
Now, he wants a second date, one at his house. I'm not sure what to expect, and I'm kind of nervous about if I went. For example, he'd prob try to have sex with me. I'm fine with doing so, because I am no virgin, but it kinda makes me nervous, like the idea of us alone at this house. I'm not really sure what I'm supposed to be thinking about this, but say I did go to his house for the date... What do I expect?? And how do I act, and how do I approach th...
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Fiance does not want to sleep in the same bed...
Posted Monday December 28 2009, 6:13 am
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hey everyone i need some advice. I got engaged to my fiance about 4months ago. We were asked to go down to Mexico for a missions trip which meant me uprooting and moving in with him because we had no idea how long we would be gone and i wouldn't be able to afford my apartment. well we came back and I have been moved in. It has been very hectic because it is not just the 2 of us in the house. it is him and i, my fiance's younger brother, his girlfriend (which also just moved in), and another roommate. Now my fiance Allan and I have been together for almost 2 years but we are waiting til marriage before we have sex, It is our own choice, but we have been sleeping in the same bed for a long time. Different story w/ his youn...
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Older guy?
Posted Monday December 28 2009, 12:26 am
So, I am a sophomore in high school and I want to make out with this guy who is a senior. (He is friends with my sister who is also a senior and he is best friends with my sisters boyfriend, I have talked to him at 2 parties and kind of flirted). How do I get him to make the move on me without me seeming desperate?
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over people.
Posted Sunday December 27 2009, 1:43 pm
How do you get over someone you still love but you know you aren't right with?
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I feel like i want to die
Posted Sunday December 27 2009, 5:26 am
I've stayed up all night tonight, i can't sleep. i just drank this situation away,but i know that never lasts, i just need to vent and ask for some advice on here.
I've loved him for 5 months, and yesturday i had so much hope. I talked to his bestfriend, and he told me straight up that *he really did like me. his best friend, said it was always me. i was going to talk to him today. But ah, today. One of my bestfriends comes over, and i mention him to her (they're related- so they're close) and how i felt about him. Then- she tells me her other good friend made out with him just the other day and he was interested in her. (yet his BEST friend told me that *he only "flirts" with her to make her feel better). I feel mind fuck...
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