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ok sooo i have a bf and i love him..we have been datin for 1yr..weve beenthrough everything together...but heres the thing...there are to other guys that like me....and i might like them...i get butterflies in my stomach when im around them...and i dont know wat to do??? plz help!?!!?
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when youre with your boyfriend or talking to him, are you thinking about the other guys?
if yes.. then you need to re-evaluate your relationship and maybe think about either breaking up with him or just going on a "break" because its what is fair for the both of you. you dont want to lead anyone on or hurt the person you love.
if no.. then you just like the attention and the thrill of something new. a lot of people like being liked and sometimes knowing that guys like you [when you have a boyfriend or when you dont] still gets you excited because its the chase. this will fade once you get older, but if you start flirting with them, then you have a problem.
but before you do anything drastic make a pros and cons list. that always helps me. pros of breaking up with your boyfriend and cons of breaking up with your boyfriend.. then see which side has more pros or cons. after you do this, talk to your boyfriend. let him know whats going on, talking it out helps and honesty is key.
hope i helped ! if you need anything else, feel free to inbox me :] xxo. good luck.
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Well first off you need to be honest with yourself do you really care for these guys or are they just cute. Weigh the pros and cons about your boyfriend and about the two guys. Are you serious with your boyfriend to the point of possibly wanting to marry him? You need to figure things out but you also need to be honest with yourself and your boyfriend. Before you make a huge decision think about it...and then talk to your boyfriend about it. Good luck and Happy Holidays!
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lol, quite simple actually, yu thinkk yu mite like them because yu hav a very soft nature and easy going personality, so coz they like yu, yu feel sry for them, making yu feel the need to sort of share your love. and if yu truly love him, i dont think theys enuff love to be shared with 2 other guys, w8 do yu mind describing your feelings for me tho as well ?
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Do what you think is best. Who would treat you better in the future? Who would you spend your life (or a year or two) with? Who loves you back? Ask yourself a load of questions, and then make a decision. :) p.s. I would stay with current boyfriend and stay good friends with other guys. haha I was no help at all. sorry
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