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i live in NJ, how much marijuana/coke do you need to be classified as a drug dealer? (link)
You have to actually be selling the pot to be a dealer. Otherwise, you're just carrying. (And it doesn't matter the amount, they'll bust you.)


Does anyone know what kind of snake this is? It was probably right around 3ft long. I found it on a trail in the panhandle of Florida near Pensacola.

http://photos-a.ak.fbcdn.net/hphotos-ak-ash1/hs295.ash1/22279_1238783815986_1420980148_30774644_7891333_n.jpg (link)
I'm thinking either cottenmouth or diamond-back.


Whats a new world order?? (link)
It is when one man, or a small group of people, lead all of the world's governments. I am a firm believer of the new world order, and I think it's coming soon. Don't be afraid to rebel!


OKay I want to do a survey. and i want to ask what is everyone Top number one thing and important thing to think about 24/7? (link)
Music is what I think about 24/7. That's what's important in life. I don't care about money or fame, but music makes me happy. Especially Metallica, Disturbed & Slipknot.


I am a song writer and i want to know where you get inspiration for writing songs or where i can find mine, im stuck , i cant find a theme to write about , help????

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Well, it would help to know the genre you make. Anyway, write about some event in your life, but make a twist. That's where I get my inspiration from. I wasn't much help, but I hope at least one song comes from using this 'method.' Hope you get famous and cough*acknowlage me*cough......


what president does will smith (chris gardner) quote in the movie?

please help =] (link)
Benjamin Franklin or Thomas Jefforson.


OK so this guy I've been dating for a little over three years, treats me like crap. I know I love him and I think that is why I'm still around. He has always been like that but he doesn't have the best past. When he's in a good mood and talks to me like I matter believe me; he's the best guy in the world. He's the one and only person I would ever allow to treat me like this. I would never tolerate this much disrespect from any one but him. I was raised to be a lion not a sheep. My parents have the golden relationship, they've been married for over 20 years, and it seems like their souls were ment to meet. My boyfriend calls me horrid names, and he does all of it I believe to watch me cry and I do I usually cry. I love him so much. Any way my question is what do I do?
Should I stay with him?
Or should I leave and not look back? (link)
You should leave him. No one deserves to be treated as you say he treats you. Verbal abuse now = physical abuse later in life. So then, he may kill you 'accidentaly.' Please take in my advice. You will not regret leaving him.


I have blonde hair, not very light, but hardly dark, and for a play I am in I am going to dye my hair darkish brown. I need something that will wash out soon, in about 2-3 days, so definitely temporary, and I certainly don't want to look Goth! I'm supposed to look like a Native American. What brand should I use, where can I buy it? I'm very new to this (never dyed my hair before), so any and all advice is appreciated! Thanks! (link)
Yeah, at Great Clips, there's some spray-stuff and you can choose a coler. It washes out, and It may come in a vary of colors.


Okay, So First off, I Know The Goth Makeup Look. Pretty Rad. But I Can't Really Do It Very Well Because Of My Skin Color. Im A Milk Chocolatey COlor. SO I Can't Make Myself "Pale" Because I'd Look Ashen. So ANybody Out There Know Of Any Kind of Makup Tips/Tricks/Styles That I Can Do That WOn't Make Me Look Stupid But Make Me Look Awesome
I'm More Of The Cyber-Loli/Goth Or Cyber-Loli-Emo Type Person. ANy Tips Will Help. :] Thank Yew (link)
Put on liquid-black mascera. Then outline it with a white eyeliner(it = the mascera). Try a goth crow look with that. Also, some blackity-black eyeliner should do the trick. :D GOTHITY GOTH!!!!!!!!!!!!


I won't tan and I can't buy makeup light enough for my skin. (Im goth btw.)
I usually use Halloween makeup (but it peels) or Halloween makeup mixed with real makeup.

Anyone know of any quick, easy household fixes or ideas to help me stay pale and beautiful and not look like I have a faceful of dirt when I wear makeup? Lmao. (link)
To get pale, put on some baby powder on your face, shoulders(and cleavage if you wear the exposing stuffs). It doesn't usually come off unless you move a whole lot. Also, don't get it on your clothes if you want it believable. (drape a towel over your shoulders) And lightly put on the makeup layer by layer. I go for the crow look, and if I put too much makeup on, it looks a little wrong. (btw I use l'Oreal. The blacker the better) So yeah. :D GO GOTHY!!!!!


okay so i have been having weird dreams lately. but some background info about me..
17f, i have a boyfriend.. 16m [we're 4 days away from 7 months]
one of my dreams..
im in the car, in the backseat, its really sunny outside, it looks like im in new mexico or something, although i've never been there. my sister is sitting next to me with her volleyball uniform on and my mom is driving in the front. then we get to this hotel or motel and we get out and i see this ghetto girl that goes to my school, jessica. [i dont talk to her in real life] and this asian girl who is named megan.. [but i dont even know a megan in real life] my sister and my mom take their stuff and head into the motel, and im just talking to megan and jessica and im like, so what are you guys doing here? and jessica says, "nothing." they are sitting in the back of a truck, and im like okay well i have to go. then i take a gray adidas bag and a purple flower bag and head inside. in the lobby i see my mom and my sister, and they're going in an elevator, i rush inside, but then my sister disapears and its just me and my mom with like 4 other women in the elevator. im holding my bags at my feet, then 3 of us get off. my mom, me, and another woman. my mom and i are halfway down the hallway when i realize i left my adidas bag in the elevator.. i run back, screaming for them to hold the door open, so the lady who walked out with me and my mom goes bakwards and opens the door, but no one is in there and my bag is gone. so i start crying and panicking and i go back to my mom and im like, ITS GONE! ALL MY STUFF IS GONE! and my mom says, "well why would you put it on the floor like that?" so then i walk away from my mom and go into a different hallway, and i go into a room with a lady in it and im like, have you seen my bag? and shes like, "no sorry." so then i run outside and i see megan and jessica, and i ask them if theyve seen my bag, and they say no. then jessica walks away and me and megan get onto a yellow schoolbus. and im asking her what happened to my bag and shes like, i cant tell you. and im like please! my grandmas necklaces are in there and they mean alot to me [but whats going through my head is lie, you need to lie to get her to tell you] so then megan goes, okay jessica took it because she wants your boyfriend and shes mad that you have him. and im like, where is it? and megan goes, in her house, but ill get it for you. and im like, megan dont get in trouble! and then jessica strolls in and sits next to us and is like hi what are you talking about and i look at megan who looks terrified and i go, "megan are you mad at me?" and then i walk off the bus. then i go to the back of the hotel and theres a pool, and i call my byfriend who has this low whispery voice and he says, "hey baby" and im like, "you know jessica?" and hes like snoring on the phone. and i keep calling his name then finaslly hes like, what? sorry im tired and im like, "you know jessica?" and hes like, "yes why" and im like, "she stole my bag because she wants you." and then i see my aunt in her car and shes like, "is your mom here?" and i said, "yeah shes inside." then i walk away from her.

but thats all i can remember. can anyone tell me what this means? sorry its so long, i really appreciate it though.
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ooooooor it's just one of those whale-on-the-ceiling dreams. :) Ya never know


Okay, so I have a toshiba, and say im logging into advicenators or facebook, I always have to type in my entire username or email. On my old toshiba, all I had to do was type in the first couple letters, and my username would show that i could click on to have it automatically enter in. How do I get my new laptop to do that too?
thanks! (link)
There's this shit called "autocomplete." Every time you start typing, it will remember what you type in the most. Try to find it on your computor. Sometimes, it gives you a message.


ok well i had sex like a week ago and now im all itchy but i dont have herpys or nothing and i have discharge wht could it be and how do i get rid of it help (link)
Yeah, you may have an STD. I forgot what it's called, but I know the symptoms, and this one is treatable. I think it starts with a G. :/ sorry I wasn't much help. I hope it gets sorted out.


19/female. this may be long but i'll return the favor ... thanks!:)

so my best friend taylor, who i have known since like 7th or 8th grade told me that she absolutely hates when girls put guys before their friends, and i'm the same way. i've never been like that, never will and its something i strongly believe in. well last night, i was with her, this guy she likes (shes hung out w/him like 3 times only) my two other friends and my cousin. well me and taylor had plans to hang out, because we wanted to give each other our christmas gifts and then we decided to go out to dinner with everyone then go bowling after. well taylor was my ride, i had my jacket in her car and everything .. i mean i rode with her. well she was acting weird the whole night and then after bowling we all didn't know what to do so we just decided to go back to my friends house, and i had ended up riding with my other friend back, because i had a feeling taylor would want to ride alone w/that guy. anyways so we get to my friends and taylor doesnt even get out of her car and the guy she likes has my jacket, and gave it to me. i was like uhhh whats going on?? and he was like we're going to go to my moms. i was furiated, i was like what the f*ck, why is she ditching us?? and she was my ride home!!! i mean my other friend ended up bringing me home but taylor didnt even ask or CARE. and she didnt even say bye or anything so i just walked passed her car and was like whatever!! she didnt say anything last night and then today she texted me and tried acting like nothing happened. so finally i said something .. i was like why did you ditch us last night for some guy you like just met, that was bit*h move. well then she made up all these excuses and i was like i'm done, done with this sutation and done with you and him if its going to be like that and she didnt say anything back.

i have a right to be mad dont you think?? once someone breaks trust w/me or something i strongly believe in, i dont just forgive easily. i'll admit i keep a grudge and i just cant beleive she did that to me. everyone i was with thought it was rude of her too. i just dont know what to do from here though... (link)
Dude, she deserves to get pelted with anger. She's a damn hypocrite. I completely understand why you're angry with her. In fact, I encourage you to be angry with her. Show her that you don't like hypocrites or backstabbers! Well, I hope she doesn't do it again. :) Get things sorted out with her, and merry x-mas & a happy new year.


ok sooo i have a bf and i love him..we have been datin for 1yr..weve beenthrough everything together...but heres the thing...there are to other guys that like me....and i might like them...i get butterflies in my stomach when im around them...and i dont know wat to do??? plz help!?!!? (link)
Do what you think is best. Who would treat you better in the future? Who would you spend your life (or a year or two) with? Who loves you back? Ask yourself a load of questions, and then make a decision. :) p.s. I would stay with current boyfriend and stay good friends with other guys. haha I was no help at all. sorry


Okay so lets get one thing straight first. I HATE my father, he didnt want me in the first place but now he wont seem to leave me alone. Anyways, it started in september, on september 11th to be exact, went to school normal day yada yada yada and me n my dad wernt talking for about a month now. We fight alot n long story short i got sick of it. Three nights before, my stepdad kicked my mom out of the house because he wanted to live with his mom and we wanted to live closer to my highschool. He demanded that i stay there with him n his mom or "he'd do what he has to do" i went with my mom by choice and we didnt have a place to live so we stayed with her friend who is also my godmother, an hour away from my highschool. Still didnt talk to my dad. That september morning i was in my first period and i was called to the front office for early dismissal. To my not-so-great of a surprise my dad was in the office. I refused to go with him anywhere and i turned around and proceeded to my second period. I was chased down by cops and assnt. principles from my front office and when they finally caught up with me they told me i had no choice but to leave with him. Let me also say tht 1/2 the school saw me crying and being escorted off school by a cop. He had gotten temporary custody. Meaning that i couldnt keep in contact with my mom (whom i very close with) and i was forced into his hands. 10 days passed n i was released back to my mom. I managed to work it out to where i got to stay with my grandmother instead of dad but she had taken his side. Normal day at school goes by and mom picks me up from school. I was unbeliveably happy. Next morning i find out he did it again. This time in the right county. ANOTHER 10 days with the bastard. I was sent through court. But im with my mom now, and i couldnt care less if i never saw him again. However i do miss my dads side of the family so i went to see them for thanksgiving, no suprise he was the only ride i could get and i regret going. Im with them again for christmas and all i want to do is spend time with my family excluding my father, but he wont leave me alone and keeps making me seem like this bitch in front of the entire family. So i want to leave early, (the same time all my cousins leave) so that its not just me n him alone. And he wont let me. Im trapped with this man how biologically may be my dad but i want nothing to do with him. Please, How do i get out? (link)
Tell him to fuck off. If you don't want to see him, then TELL him your true feelings about him. If he objects, say "If you really love me, you would respect my decision." I'm sorry to hear about all this stuff that's happening. I hope it sorts itself out. =)


hey how do you make videos like with the icons for youtube? i always wanted to make one... i have windows media player? like i have nooo clue :/ i want to make one with music nd icons? help! (link)
By the icon, do you mean the ""movie choice pic?" You choose that after the download. :)


4 years ago was the last time I saw my dad. He left without a trace. We've been tracking him and he was arrested today. I might go see him tomorrow, and I am thinking of what to do/say. I could really use some help now. I am a 14 year old male. (link)
Yeah, I saw him yesterday....... I didn't have to say much. He beat himself up. Well, thx for all the advice :)


I am alone in my room and I cannot kick the thought of suicide. Now that I have had some time to think things through ,commiting suicide needs to be planned. Recently I was found hanging from my belt in a closet and I think it should've been planned properly. I was so close .my body got numb and I didn't feel a thing. Unless you have really felt like this you cannot understand what this feels like. Someone who is for real about committing suicide does not care anymore about how it will affect the rest of the people around you. So do you think my testament will be honored if I ignored everyone when I was here? (link)
Yes, most likely it will be honored. I'm not here to preach to you to get help, but when I think about suicide, I think "Who will I affect by doing this?" and "What will happen tomorrow if I don't/do?" I hope you don't. I really do. The world will be a better place with you, but if you already made your mind, then...... i'm sorry.


Well I have a Muvo v100 mp3 player. I've had it for a while, and up until 2 weeks ago it would plug into the computer so I can put music on it. NOw when I plug it into the computer, it doesn't do anything and won't let me transfer music onto it or anything...What do I do? I NEED NEW MUSIC!! (link)
Use a different USB cord. If that doesn't work, try using different plugin spots. If all else fails, you may have to get a new music deviice. :/ sorry




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