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if you commit suicide is your will and testament still uphold?


Question Posted Wednesday December 23 2009, 10:04 pm

I am alone in my room and I cannot kick the thought of suicide. Now that I have had some time to think things through ,commiting suicide needs to be planned. Recently I was found hanging from my belt in a closet and I think it should've been planned properly. I was so close .my body got numb and I didn't feel a thing. Unless you have really felt like this you cannot understand what this feels like. Someone who is for real about committing suicide does not care anymore about how it will affect the rest of the people around you. So do you think my testament will be honored if I ignored everyone when I was here?

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gothboy19738246 answered Thursday December 24 2009, 1:21 pm:
Yes, most likely it will be honored. I'm not here to preach to you to get help, but when I think about suicide, I think "Who will I affect by doing this?" and "What will happen tomorrow if I don't/do?" I hope you don't. I really do. The world will be a better place with you, but if you already made your mind, then...... i'm sorry.

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adviceman49 answered Thursday December 24 2009, 9:28 am:
The answer to your question depends on the Laws on the State you live. Each state has different requirements as to witnesses required and filings. You will need to do some research to find out the laws in your state.

More important is you plan on committing suicide. Since you already stated you care about those you leave behind I will not go into that. The fact is you are depressed. Just what is causing your depression is the unknown. You are looking at suicide to stop the pain; there are better ways to stop the pain then ending your life. Whatever is causing you pain there are people out there who can and will help you. All you need to do is ask.

I urge you to do one of two things; Go to the nearest Hospital Emergency Room, take the letter you wrote us with you and ask for help. Cannot get to an ER, then pick up a phone and dial 911. Tell the call taker you have suicidal thoughts and have attempted suicide in the past. The 911 center will dispatch police, fire and ambulance services. The police are sent to help you not to arrest you. They are there to make sure everything is safe for the fire and rescue service. There is nothing for you to fear all anyone is interested in is your safety and helping you get better.

Please do as I ask and ask for help.

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