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Dad left 4 years ago, and I found Him. What should I do?
4 years ago was the last time I saw my dad. He left without a trace. We've been tracking him and he was arrested today. I might go see him tomorrow, and I am thinking of what to do/say. I could really use some help now. I am a 14 year old male.
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Yeah, I saw him yesterday....... I didn't have to say much. He beat himself up. Well, thx for all the advice :)
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I agree with the last coulumist,u should get off everything you have bottled up in your mind like if you wanted to know why did he leave you without a trace or how could he have done it it is the perfect chance to get things off your chest but heres a tip.. dont try to be all mad -looking when you see him try to have an open mind to his answers and try to tke it from his point of view like hat would you do?? If you stick with this,you should be okay!
Good Luck!
Tatianna!
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what your going to say really depends on your feeling towards your dad.
if you are mad at him then yell.
maybe ask him why he left you.
if you miss him and stuff then tell him that.
you havcenmt seen him in 4 years and hes being arrested, just tell him whatevers on your mind.
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Don't go with any expectations, because you don't know what to expect. That means...you don't know if he will want to see you. You don't know how he will react to you seeing him. So be ready for anything.
Be honest with him. Tell him how you feel about his leaving without a trace. Tell him how it made you feel.
If you have feelings for him, tell him. But be honest.
I'm sorry you have to go through this. No one deserves this in their life. You are very brave in going to see him. Good luck.
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