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My boyfriend is mean to me what do I do?
OK so this guy I've been dating for a little over three years, treats me like crap. I know I love him and I think that is why I'm still around. He has always been like that but he doesn't have the best past. When he's in a good mood and talks to me like I matter believe me; he's the best guy in the world. He's the one and only person I would ever allow to treat me like this. I would never tolerate this much disrespect from any one but him. I was raised to be a lion not a sheep. My parents have the golden relationship, they've been married for over 20 years, and it seems like their souls were ment to meet. My boyfriend calls me horrid names, and he does all of it I believe to watch me cry and I do I usually cry. I love him so much. Any way my question is what do I do?
Should I stay with him?
Or should I leave and not look back?
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Dear writer,
I'm so sorry to hear about your situation. I was once a victim of emotional and verbal abuse. I told myself that he was the only person who I'd accept that from, but it's not going to get any better. I was in that nightmare for years. It sounds like he's throwing you hints (well in his mind). There is probably someone else that's got his attention, and instead of being a man and moving on; he's stringing you along at his convenience. It's not totally his fault, you play a major part in this. Once you let him know that you were going to stay around, he knew he had you right where he wanted you. Though it's not right, that's life. You have to pull from within, toughen up, resort back to the lioness you know you are. They say absence makes the heart grow fonder. If you love him that much, let him go. If you meant anything at all to him, he may ponder change; and it might work out later in life. As of the present, you need to move on. Don't ever allow a man to be so comfortable that he forgets you're a human being. You have feelings too, learn to love yourself, because if you're no good to yourself; you can't be of any good to anyone else. I'm only speaking from experience. TTYL :)
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Someone who treats you like couldn't possibly love you:/ When someone loves someone they show it by calling you names like "baby" "Sweety" not horrid names? You really should break it off with him. No one deserves to be treated like that. Especially you.. you will find someone who will treat you better than that, but first you have to break up with him. Good luck! :)
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Well, no one deserves to be treated like that. If he loves you like he says he does, there is no way he would treat you that way. You don't want to give yourself less than you deserve. is it that you love him or is it that you think you do because you don't know what you would do without him? I would give it just a little more time, but with the way he's treating you, maybe you should just break it off. He wouldn't treat you so bad if he truly loved you and respected you. I hope this helps!
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You should leave him. No one deserves to be treated as you say he treats you. Verbal abuse now = physical abuse later in life. So then, he may kill you 'accidentaly.' Please take in my advice. You will not regret leaving him.
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