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waiting too long? (this post iis tooooTOOOlong) tehe
dear reader!!! tehe
okay so I've been dating this guy for almost a year and he hasn't asked me to be his girlfriend yet. i mean i don't want to ask him because that would be weird...
me: "would you be my boyfriend?"
him: "uhhh...isn't it my job to ask?"
SEEEE ITSSS WEIRD!!!! okay i know i should just grow some balls and ask him but i established that we were dating so its his turn!!! and its not like he doesn't love me...right? right?!?!? RIGHTT?!?!!?!??!?!!?? well he told me yesterday that he was falling in love with me (AWWWWWWWWWWWW) (throws up) tehehe jk. but yeah so i don't think love is the problem...but i don't know if i should wait it out or just ask him...i mean i really do love him but its taking him FOREVER to ask!!! aha
-frm miss impatient!
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If you've been dating a year, it's possible he already considers you guys to be together.
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Alright, in my opinion, I think girls deserve a say in what they want. So don't go around waiting for him to ask. He is probably really shy. If he says that he loves you, then he won't say no if you ask, right?? So just come clean. Guys love it when a girl has confidence and asks. Just talk to him like this:
You: I don't get the mind of guys anymore
Him: What do you mean?
You: You say that you love me, and we've been going out about a year now.... Why haven't you asked me to be your girlfriend??
Okay, so if you ask him like that, he won't think you're pushing him too fast. It would just let him know that he IS allowed to ask you to be his girlfriend.
The boy is probably shy. Don't let him lead. Be a WOMAN! I know, I'm acting like a feminist, but you gotta admit that it is true right? haha
Let me know how it turns out for you. I hope my advice helped -
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