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My Crush...is it a good crush?
I have a crush who doesn't like me. He doesn't even talk to me. And I'm just too shy to talk to me. He is part of the "gang". And the gang makes fun of people, like me. My Crush won't even add me on facebook. Theres nothing really that I love about him, except that he's handsome. Not really handsome. But Joe Jonas is way handsomer. :) If my crush won't even talk to me, add me on facebook and be nice to me. Is he a good choice? Because I only like him because hes handsome. And I also want to stop liking him. There are other guys in my school who are kinder than him but not so handsome. Any ways I could stop liking him? Im really obsessed by the way. If I see a letter of his first name...I go crazy! I also tend to stare at him a lot (which was last year) but now I hardly look at him. I don't show that I like him. Just so he likes me more. But seriously I love him!!
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I'm pretty sure you know the answer already. Not only does he act mean towards you and refuse to acknowledge your existence, but you even admit that you only like him because he's hot. It's perfectly normal to get crushes like that, but try to just look at it and treat it as what it is--a crush on a hottie--and not take it too seriously or obsess over it so much. I mean, look at it this way: would you rather have a hot guy who treats you like crap, or a not-quite-so-hot guy who treats you wonderfully? Looks aren't everything.
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First of all, I think you know this answer. If this guy isn't paying you any attention and treating you bad, leave him alone. Why should you chase someone like that? Have a little self respect and esteem. Love yourself before you try to love someone else.
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Ahhh, to be young and have a crush...
Well, don't beat yourself up, because this is so very normal...I will assume you are in your teens, so yeah, absolutely normal.
I used to have a crush on my neighbor and boy was it crazy mad! I knew it could never be, because he was like way older than me, but man, I dreamt about it..hahah.
Anyway, as I grew out of that phase, its neat to look back and just see how I could possess such strong feelings for someone that had absolutely no interest in me. In your position, you have the same thing, but not only is it unrealistic for you two to be together, but he is part of a group that ridicules you and demeans who you are.
This is where a line is drawn. He wont add you on FB or acknowledge you, so there is a good chance that if you ever built up the confidence to talk to him, he would ignore you, only to not be ridiculed by his gang members, you know?? Guys in their young state are not out to find out who they can fall in love with. they are about being cool, or looking for a quick booty call from a random girl so they can brag to their buddies.
I know it's going to be hard, but for your own benefit of not being hurt or dissed, merely look at this guy as a cutie or however you see him, and that's it...
You have to see things for how they are, not how you imagine them in your mind. It's hard to explain, but when you take a reality check and look at your situation from 'outside the box', you would be able to see what I'm talking about and see how silly it is to obsess over someone.
If by chance, you actually end up trying to talk to him, try to be optimistic, and be ready for anything. If he diss's you, then just say to yourself, Okay, I'm not shocked and now I know how it's going to be.
At least, when you look back on this one day, you can say, hey, I put myself out there and tried.
Good Luck!! Keep me posted!
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firstly yu dont seem like the smartest of ppl, this guy seems like an ass, yu shood never like someone who doesnt even kno or care abt yu, like srsly, looks dont mean anything in life, its your personality tht counts, just get a less better looking guy, with a good personality, or just dont like anyone for now, and date actua mature ppl when your older, SRSLY!!
Note: sry if i was rude in anyway, its just how i see it personally
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