Question Posted Tuesday December 29 2009, 12:00 pm
i have a really hugh crush on this boy in the year above me in school and when i say huge i mean im in love with him. he knows i like him because my friend told him lol but hes got a girlfriend and at the moment it looks like this relationship will last quite a while. im not sure weather to just try and fogget about him wich would be hard because i see him in school and my sister is best mates with his sister and alwasy tells me storys about him, or should i just wait and see if they do breake up and then ask him out ? im really stook on what to do please help :(
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Work/School Relationships? WiseOldUnicorn answered Wednesday December 30 2009, 9:46 am: As hard as it may be, the best thing to do is try to forget about him and move on. IF they do happen to break up and you still like the guy, go ahead and make a move on him. But don't count on that happening--just assume they'll stay together and try to move on with your life and find someone else. That's the only way that's really fair and will avoid people getting hurt. I know getting over someone you really like is hard, especially when you have to see them all the time, but you'll make it. Try to minimize the exposure you have to him, if you can--it'll help. Good luck. =) [ WiseOldUnicorn's advice column | Ask WiseOldUnicorn A Question ]
solidadvice4teens answered Tuesday December 29 2009, 7:01 pm: Do yourself a favor as hard as it may be and back off the throttle with this guy. Say nothing more about your crush to anyone. If you don't his girlfriend will resent you and possibly he will as well.
Wait and see what develops but also look and see who may be best suited to you right now as boyfriend material. This way you might find someone better or to be with if his current relationship shows no signs of cracks. This is your only sane option that won't result badly. [ solidadvice4teens's advice column | Ask solidadvice4teens A Question ]
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