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second date
I went on my first date with a guy a few days ago; we saw Sherlock Holmes. We made out a few times during the movie :). So this guy and I have become close because he's been (suspended) from college for the first semester, but he'll be going back in about a month (I'm in high school).
Now, he wants a second date, one at his house. I'm not sure what to expect, and I'm kind of nervous about if I went. For example, he'd prob try to have sex with me. I'm fine with doing so, because I am no virgin, but it kinda makes me nervous, like the idea of us alone at this house. I'm not really sure what I'm supposed to be thinking about this, but say I did go to his house for the date... What do I expect?? And how do I act, and how do I approach the whole us hooking up situation? I neeedd helpp. Thank you loves :)
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ok heres the deal he invited you over to have sex with you now if you want to have sex and just let it be a hook up than you already know what to do butt if you dont just want a hook up than dont do it go somewhere else hes moving pretty fast and to ask 4 a 2date to be at his house sweetie come on read between the lines hes in COLLEGE not high school i think you should be carefull i know you like him and all but the question is DOES he like you. sometimes its best to make him wait and feel it out be carefull and maybe your nervous for a reason girl good luck with whatever you choose the ball is in your court you want a hookup than go if you want 2 see what he wants say no theres no rush
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This might not be what you want to hear, but I don't think it's a good idea for you to go to his place on the second date- it's clear that you are uncomfortable and unsure about it. There is nothing wrong with hanging out at his place, but you really shouldn't do anything you aren't entirely sure of. Besides, you two have only gone out once before, and if things go well, there's plenty of time for you to step things up and go to his place or invite him over.
I would recommend taking things a bit more slowly- even if it doesn't feel right to do so, you will thank yourself. You could let him know that you had a great time with him, and would like to have a second date somewhere else- you could bring up some ideas, like dinner, a walk around town (more so if you live in a city), whatever you'd like. You did mention that the idea of being alone with him at his house makes you feel nervous--that is a clear sign that you are not ready to. If you go, and let your nerves take the better half of you, you might do things you are not yet ready to do, and regret it afterwards. It's too soon to think about those things. Healthy relationships progress naturally, and are based on mutual respect. If he does not respect your (possible) choice not to hang out at his place just yet, then he doesn't respect you, or deserve you. Be honest with him, and see how he responds. If he is a respectful person, he will understand.
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