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Confusing....(kind of long)
OKay so i like this guy, hes 17 and im 14 (im not big on ages, i dont think they matter) and hes a senior, im a freshmen..and he has a girlfriend of 2 years steady and 1 year of on and off. So i met him when we both started staying after for a sport. im the manager-type person and we started talking on the bus. well after a while i started likeing him, as well as he likeing me. Well then he started sitting right next to me like, on the same seat and after a couple days of still talking...he kissed me. and i loved it. so after that, on the bus he would always give me little goodbye kisses and i loved them. Then one weekend i was walking over to my friends house who lives very close and i find out he lives right by here so i start kind of hanging out with him when im on my way to my friends house. Well, we kiss. Alot and we love it. We talk about deep things and iv never trusted a guy this much. i like him. alot. and he says he likes me alot too. Well, my brother was reading my text messages and found all the cute texts this guy had sent me and told this guy that he couldnt be my friend anymore or whatever. So now im confused and hurt because i told this guy everything. and i mean, he told me he likes me alot and then once my older brother says he doesnt want us being friends he says okay. But we havnt stoped talking because he says he doesnt want to. Im so confused about all of this. Does he just want me for a piece of ass? or does he like me?
What do you think this all means...?
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he probably felt threatened by your brother and decided to back off before he got his ass kicked. it does sound to me like he likes you, but i'd STOP before i let this go any further. he has a girlfriend, from what you've said. and he's pretty much cheating on her with you. if you guys were to start going out, how can you trust him when he was cheating once before? i wouldn't trust him, and i would stop hanging out with him so much. it's no fun being known as the "other woman" anyways.
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Hard to say, because people are so different. I definitely understand why your brother is paranoid. You might not realize it but you are very young and most likely aren't ready for the same things that a 17 year old guy is. Usually, 17 year old guys that go after 14 year old girls aren't going after them because they truly like them but are just using them for sex. However I don't this guy personally, I don't know how he is with you, so it's possible that he truly likes you.
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