Member Since: December 28, 2009
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Last Update: April 5, 2010
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if you saw your husband sending messages to other girls lets say thru facebook or myspace etch and he wrote "hey bby let me get your aim or msn,your a cutie" while being with you would you get mad?? but without him knowin you check his thing . (link)
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Yes, who cares whether or not you check his thing? Those are still signs of cheating.
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I treated my boyfriend like a KING,maybe that's why he broke up with me.I drove him everywhere,helped/did his homework,bought him food,made him food,went to all his soccer games for support,bought him little presents all the time,and he obviously got a lot of action ( if you know what I mean)..but during all of this we hungout ALOT.I guess I was kind of clingy because I always needed him there in order to feel protected and happy.So he broke up with me because he needed "time and space " away from me.I'm trying to try a hard to get approach..which should be easy since I used to do so much for him. We have hungout since we broke up ,but not alone.and i have a class with him,and he kept talking to me today and walked me to my next class like he used to.and he came up and said hi to me at lunch with his friend,2 separate times but not for long.He was texting me and begging me for help on a homework and i barely helped him and when he called me for more help,i talked for less than 5 minutes and told him i had to go. It's been less than 10 days since we've broken up and we're on great terms with eachother but i need some tips that would help me get him back! (link)
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Why would you want to get back together with him? It sounds like you did everything for him, and he jsut didn't appreciate you. If you really want him back, leave him alone and let him miss you, make it where he's practically on his hands and knees begging for you back.
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19/female.
I'm just wondering if any of you girls have had GOOD outcomes of sleeping with a good/best guy friend of yours that you were sexually attracted to? What was it like - was it weird, was it uncomfortable, was it great? Are you still close friends, or did it ruin your relationship?
Just a thought for me to dwell on, i've head people say DON'T sleep with your best friend, it will just ruin the relationship so i'm curious to see if any of you girls have had good experiences. thanks!:) (link)
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I think that A LOT of it depends on how serious your relationship with your best friend is, your maturity level, and how much you guys value your friendship. I've just begun a relationship with a guy who I've always been close to that I've known my whole life. While I can't predict the future, I'm not going to let it ruin my friendship with my boyfriend regardless of what happens down the road.
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I usually give advice to other people about this kinda stuff, but I currently I've found myself in a difficult situation that I could use some other opinions on.
I'm a guy in my early 20's that's been dating a girl for a little over half a year. The problem is she lives in another country, and I met her when I went abroad for half a year. The last two months we've been apart. I feel like she really is happy with the relationship, but I personally am not because of the long distance and some other reasons. I know it's selfish, but the reason I'm still with her is that I don't want to feel the loneliness of not having someone care about me in that way. I feel like even though I'm not happy with it that I would hurt her a lot by ending it also, and that I might lose some friends that are close to her and me, because they will take her side on it.
She's coming here for a year next year, but after that she'll be gone, and so I said eventually it would have to end and she got very defensive. She always ask me if I'm cheating on her, but I can assure you I'm not. She's really worried about the relationship not working out.
I just don't feel that connection, and i don't see it as that serious. I really have fun with her, but I don't feel a strong love connection, and I am absolutely sure that I wouldn't want to marry her.
I just don't know what to do, because eventually I will break up with her, but initially I was gonna wait it out and see what happens since she is coming back next year. I wish we could both just see the relationship as a non-serious thing, but I feel like she can't see it like that. I was just having fun with it, but I guess she has a much more serious view of the relationship.
Any advice or perspectives on my situation would really help me out. Thanks a lot (link)
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I think you would best off breaking up with her. You seem to be with her for all the wrong reasons, yes at times it sucks being single and lonely, but you seem very unhappy in this relationship. If your friends are true friends, they will still stay your friends. It also sounds like even if you break up with her a while down the road, you're still going to hurt if not even more.
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OKay so i like this guy, hes 17 and im 14 (im not big on ages, i dont think they matter) and hes a senior, im a freshmen..and he has a girlfriend of 2 years steady and 1 year of on and off. So i met him when we both started staying after for a sport. im the manager-type person and we started talking on the bus. well after a while i started likeing him, as well as he likeing me. Well then he started sitting right next to me like, on the same seat and after a couple days of still talking...he kissed me. and i loved it. so after that, on the bus he would always give me little goodbye kisses and i loved them. Then one weekend i was walking over to my friends house who lives very close and i find out he lives right by here so i start kind of hanging out with him when im on my way to my friends house. Well, we kiss. Alot and we love it. We talk about deep things and iv never trusted a guy this much. i like him. alot. and he says he likes me alot too. Well, my brother was reading my text messages and found all the cute texts this guy had sent me and told this guy that he couldnt be my friend anymore or whatever. So now im confused and hurt because i told this guy everything. and i mean, he told me he likes me alot and then once my older brother says he doesnt want us being friends he says okay. But we havnt stoped talking because he says he doesnt want to. Im so confused about all of this. Does he just want me for a piece of ass? or does he like me?
What do you think this all means...? (link)
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Hard to say, because people are so different. I definitely understand why your brother is paranoid. You might not realize it but you are very young and most likely aren't ready for the same things that a 17 year old guy is. Usually, 17 year old guys that go after 14 year old girls aren't going after them because they truly like them but are just using them for sex. However I don't this guy personally, I don't know how he is with you, so it's possible that he truly likes you.
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So my best friend came out to me the other day. I did not think anything of it, and she is still my best friend. However, she just told me that i was the reason she likes girls. I was "that girl" that she liked. I obviously still love her as my best friend, however, i sometimes feel awkward going over to her house and watching a movie, or just doing anything close to her. What should i do? i dont want it to ruin our friendship. (link)
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Just let her know that you're not interested in her like that, and that you're hoping that you can still be friends. Basically, like you would tell a guy friend if he told you that he was interested in you, and you didn't feel that way about him.
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