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want to get back together with an ex


Question Posted Monday April 5 2010, 5:55 pm

I treated my boyfriend like a KING,maybe that's why he broke up with me.I drove him everywhere,helped/did his homework,bought him food,made him food,went to all his soccer games for support,bought him little presents all the time,and he obviously got a lot of action ( if you know what I mean)..but during all of this we hungout ALOT.I guess I was kind of clingy because I always needed him there in order to feel protected and happy.So he broke up with me because he needed "time and space " away from me.I'm trying to try a hard to get approach..which should be easy since I used to do so much for him. We have hungout since we broke up ,but not alone.and i have a class with him,and he kept talking to me today and walked me to my next class like he used to.and he came up and said hi to me at lunch with his friend,2 separate times but not for long.He was texting me and begging me for help on a homework and i barely helped him and when he called me for more help,i talked for less than 5 minutes and told him i had to go. It's been less than 10 days since we've broken up and we're on great terms with eachother but i need some tips that would help me get him back!

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orphans answered Monday April 5 2010, 10:47 pm:
That's pretty typical; you should try to talk to him about it to gain more clue as to why it's happening. It seems like you're a little confused...

I think you should also be a bit less dependent on him. Maybe you should ask him to do some things for you too, and if he doesn't offer even 1/2 of what you're doing for him, then maybe you should reconsider it.

Tell him you're bothered that even after all that effort you put into the relationship he broke up with you for no good reason and still treating you like a slave.

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xxPrettyGirlxx answered Monday April 5 2010, 9:45 pm:
Why would you want to get back together with him? It sounds like you did everything for him, and he jsut didn't appreciate you. If you really want him back, leave him alone and let him miss you, make it where he's practically on his hands and knees begging for you back.

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