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16/f.
i've been with my boyfriend for around 7 months. he's the person i lost it to and everything.
he's a gangster and not the best person for me but I still care about him and everything. he told me he loves me and all this bs a few weeks ago. I believe him but i don't feel the same way yet. Today he got mad at me for not telling him what was wrong with my best friend. He's been having family issues and has been really stressed out so i kind of understand but this is the first time he's ever been mad at me and it's really stupid. I'm not quite sure what to do about him anymore. this all happened in the morning and like an hour later he came up to me and this girl that he's always talking shit about and acts like they're best friends. I use to be close to that girl but then I found out she's very scandalous and was trying to get at everyone's boyfriends. I'm not sure what to do about this situation. He seems sad yet he's acting like a jerk. bipolar much? Advice? Thanks in advance (link)
hello =)
i think hes just upset that you didnt say it back but hey if ur not ready then your not ready and he needs to understand that so try talking to him about it i dont think hes cheating on you i think hes just trying to show you that if you dont want him other gurls do so dont take that to the heart just show him that you do care about him and he means alot to hope it helps =)


i'm a girl in the 10th grade and my friend ashley and i have been friends starting from our 9th grade year. well about 4 days ago i started likeing this guy(lets call him *NICK*)and by the end of the day she liked him too. the three of us have lunch together. and every day at lunch we joke aroud saying he'm my man and things like that. so 2 days ago she wanted to make a bet. "the last person who says hi to nick has to get the 1st person a hook up with him" i said no but she said "uyeah unless your afraid i'll be the 1st to say hi." and i told her "no i'm not".

so when nick got his food he walked pass our table and i said hi. she rolled her eyes and said "i hate you" with a smile. the next day at break she runs up to me and says "i gave nick my number" so i just said ok, thinking that she wouldn't say anything else, but she kept going on about it then at the end of the day she runs up to me again and brags that he texed her hi, and wouldnt shut up about it. so i wnt to track pratice (and nick i s on the track team too) and i tell my cousin about how my day was going and she says she has had enough and tells him almost the hole story. and he says he's not trying to come in between our frienship and all he did was tex her hi and he didn't tex her back after that, and that he's sorry.

ashley is willing to battle with me to have him, but i'm not the type to fight over a boy, but i will defend myself. what do i do give my friendship up with ashley? stop talking to nick? please help me

{SORRY IF ITS TO LONG} (link)
i have been threw this and sorry to say this you're friendship wont last even if you decide to let her have him as hard as you try it wont work it will not be the same if you get him or if she gets him if you get him shell tell you thats shes okay with it but deep down she wont be and if she gets him you'll be hurting inside there no way to get out of this with out hurting you're friendship so i say dont stop talking to him you're hes friend to why lose two friends at least thats what i think good luck you never know it might work for you i might have gave up to fast on my friendship good luck i hoped it helped


15/f
there is this boy in my photography class (dylan) and he kinda flirts with me. Me and him got sent down to the gym to photgraph an appearance from a local hockey player, Rocky Thompson. We talked alot then and after that he started calling me rocky. then the other night there was the halloween dance. me and my boyfriend went in the haunted house together, where dylan was working. i was still holding my boyfriends hand, and dylan came behind me wrapped his arms around me in a big hug from behind and said, 'hey rocky, you look good'. i ignored it and luckily my boyfriend didn't hear. What is dylans problem, does he like me or is he just a jerk? It would help if you could also answer my other question about my boyfriend- http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=573146
Thanks a bunch guys (link)
well i tend to get a lot of nicknames i have two this year from two diffrent boy i don't think they like me i think they just gave those nicknames cause Im okay with it guys tend play around a lot so if he knows you have a boy friend and he saw you with him don't worry hes just trying to be a friend he means no harm


Well u see ive been talking with this boy,I really love him,like he is everything i need & wand there is just something about him. But he has a girlfriend. But we still talk and fool around. it kills me but i want it so bad i know im selling my self short so what do i do.Tell him its me or her? because i feel if i do that ill like be crushed. He tells me he doesn't like me as a girl friend number 2 but yet he calles me babe and he treats me like that so like what gives. The other girl doesn't even talk to him,ever but for some reason he still wants her..i just need some advice to see what i should do. (link)
forget him i know how u feel its going to hurt you more if you keep this going longer just end it now if he says he doesnt like you like that then he doesnt hes a guy of couser hes going to fool around with you but your just a friend and it sounds like nothing else to me im sorrry if that sounds mean but just let him go


I'm a 15 year old girl. Sorry if its long . :P
Well, I like this guy for a year now and he's a good friend of mine. We started getting actually closer, friend wise, this year. We joke around a lot and mock each other, though a few times he's said stuff like, "NO ! I LOVE YOU MAN," and other stuff somewhat related to that when I make him feel bad. I have 2 classes with him but only talk to him in one of them since he's with his friend for one of them. He's quite, erm, a perverted guy? He talks to me about boners and stuff like that. Yeah I know it's kind of weird. I do notice that he looks at me at times, but sometimes when he's with his friends, he never looks at me. He has brought up if I liked anyone but I just said maybe, and I asked him the same and he said he doesn't like anyone. My friends all think he likes me but then they don't realize I'm actually pretty tight with him and all. I know I sound ridiculous right now, because I could just tell him. But the thing is, there are some other girls that like him aswell, but their not as tight with him like I am, and some of those girls told him that they like him, and he started to ignore them. He finds them annoying. But you see, their not that good looking. I'm not saying I'm a "hot" person, but I'm decent. When we're sitting beside eachother and when our legs/arms/shoulders sometimes touch, he won't move it away, but sometimes he does. I'm pretty confused right now, and I'm also close with his friend and his friend said that he's pretty shy too and he never said "i love you" to other girls. I don't know how to tell him that I like him, or even what to do. We talk a lot on msn and stuff aswell. Any advice is appreciated. :) Thanks! (link)
i say go for it u might be afrade to take a channce but you never know if your really good friends then telling him wont hurt your friendship in any way so go for you got nothing to lose :)




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