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He likes me , he likes me not ?
I'm a 15 year old girl. Sorry if its long . :P
Well, I like this guy for a year now and he's a good friend of mine. We started getting actually closer, friend wise, this year. We joke around a lot and mock each other, though a few times he's said stuff like, "NO ! I LOVE YOU MAN," and other stuff somewhat related to that when I make him feel bad. I have 2 classes with him but only talk to him in one of them since he's with his friend for one of them. He's quite, erm, a perverted guy? He talks to me about boners and stuff like that. Yeah I know it's kind of weird. I do notice that he looks at me at times, but sometimes when he's with his friends, he never looks at me. He has brought up if I liked anyone but I just said maybe, and I asked him the same and he said he doesn't like anyone. My friends all think he likes me but then they don't realize I'm actually pretty tight with him and all. I know I sound ridiculous right now, because I could just tell him. But the thing is, there are some other girls that like him aswell, but their not as tight with him like I am, and some of those girls told him that they like him, and he started to ignore them. He finds them annoying. But you see, their not that good looking. I'm not saying I'm a "hot" person, but I'm decent. When we're sitting beside eachother and when our legs/arms/shoulders sometimes touch, he won't move it away, but sometimes he does. I'm pretty confused right now, and I'm also close with his friend and his friend said that he's pretty shy too and he never said "i love you" to other girls. I don't know how to tell him that I like him, or even what to do. We talk a lot on msn and stuff aswell. Any advice is appreciated. :) Thanks!
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just tell him. take the risk. if you don't your going to regret it. it will always be in the back of your mind and u will never know unless you take that chance and tell him. The same thing happened to me. and i never saw it coming, i didn't want to fall in love with him because i didn't want it to ruin our friendship. So i ignored it, and ended up ignoring him as well and all that left me with was a broken heart because i lost my best friend. and still today we cant even look at each other and i don't know why, its been two years...take the chance, take the risk because i wish that i could still go back and tell him how much i honestly loved him. I know that people say this all the time but just follow your heart. and even if it doesn't work out you cant say you didn't take the risk and that's something i wish i was strong enough to do.
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i say go for it u might be afrade to take a channce but you never know if your really good friends then telling him wont hurt your friendship in any way so go for you got nothing to lose :)
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If i were you i would just take the chance. From what you have said it seems like he may like you. If your friends are telling you that he likes you then that shows that he's giving off signs that you may not notice but they do. If you've liked him for a while then you need to let it out, otherwise he may move on if you dont say anything soon. But tell him in person, over text is kinda lame, especially if yall are good friends. And second dont do it in front of his friends. Guys dont get embarrasse easily, but with this kind of thing, yes they will. Hope this helped:)
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well the best thing to do is set him straight and if he dosent take it understanderble then hes not a good friend at all and u should keep a distant realationship from him for at least a couple of weeks.but if u do decide to set him straight dont say it in front of evryone,instead take him aside and then tell him.
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