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Boy=so confused
Well u see ive been talking with this boy,I really love him,like he is everything i need & wand there is just something about him. But he has a girlfriend. But we still talk and fool around. it kills me but i want it so bad i know im selling my self short so what do i do.Tell him its me or her? because i feel if i do that ill like be crushed. He tells me he doesn't like me as a girl friend number 2 but yet he calles me babe and he treats me like that so like what gives. The other girl doesn't even talk to him,ever but for some reason he still wants her..i just need some advice to see what i should do.
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forget him i know how u feel its going to hurt you more if you keep this going longer just end it now if he says he doesnt like you like that then he doesnt hes a guy of couser hes going to fool around with you but your just a friend and it sounds like nothing else to me im sorrry if that sounds mean but just let him go
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I am sorry to tell you but yes you are selling yourself short. Tell him what you think and tell him that you don't want to be the second girl. If he truely loves you like you love him and you guys are meant to be together then things will work out. Think of this as a test to prove his love after you talk to him you gave to wait and see what he does. If he stays with his girlfriend then he isn't worth your time. Hope my advice helped.
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well yu jus answer yur own question....i was n dis same exact situation and i did tha same thing yur doin now it neva wrks out!deres alwys a point wear yu gotta let go if he did like yu likie he said he wud have ben let tha otha gurl go...find a guy will not put yu 2nd in his life
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We boys are a strange species. Ok, here is the facts: Boys like to have more than one "girlfreind." By "girlfreind I mean Freinds that are girls. Him calling you "babe" tells me that he thinks you two are obviously close. He tells you he doesn't like you as a girlfreind, but he does. I can tell. He just doesn't want his real girlfreind knowing he likes someone other than her. You can totally get him, I assure you. Just ask him out. Tell him to leave her. Tell him She's no good. Stuff like that.....
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thats pretty wierd...
ummm since he tells you he doesnt like you as a girlfriend i dont suggest making him choose between you two.
but since you say he doesnt really talk to her they will probably break up soon so just be patient.
but while you wait, make sure he starts to like you more that her. always look good, be easygoing about things. and play hard to get. dont make it seems like your waiting around for him, but dont play too hard to get that he thinks you dont like him.
sorry if i confused you.
goodluck!
please can you tell how this goess?
let me know if you need anymore help!
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