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why can't i treat myself like he treats me?
Posted Tuesday January 5 2010, 9:09 pm
I am 14/f and my bf is 16/m. We were both in a relationship, we both broke up around the same time, and we started dating axpromiately three months after the break ups. So there was a gap. But the exes are whats causing some problems. His ex... Lets call her S and well call my boyfriend B. Alright so before I even knew B or liked him or anything, I've hated S. I reeeally don't want to go in to the details of why all that hatred is there but yeah... And my ex, isn't exactly important except that he really screwed me up. He was sixteen while we were dating and I was fourteen. After about a month he tried to have sex with me. I told him no, I wasn't ready, I'm too young. And he broke up with me. He told me that he was only dating me because he...
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FEARS....DATING.....FED UP. radsfjlkadsfj :(
Posted Tuesday January 5 2010, 7:10 pm
UGH.
15/f
For SOO long, I thought I had a "fear of commitment" issue, and that's why I've turned down EVERY guy who's asked me out
But lately I realized, it's not that I fear I won't be able to get out of a realtionship...
It's that I'm afraid of what people will think!!!
Just to say, I'm a total perfectionist. EVERYTHING needs to be perfect.
Whenever I like guys, they are PERFECT. GORGEOUS, smart, funny, popular...usually assholes... like it would ever happen.
I always occasionally find myself liking more down-to-earth guys, that usually like me to start with...they're usually cute, short, hilarious, and sweet.
But EVERY TIME they ask...
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Two best friends...
Posted Tuesday January 5 2010, 6:55 pm
I made these new guy friends in a class recently that I sit with.
Two of them are best friends...we'll call them...Tony and Kyle.
Tony is kind of perverted and loud but really funny and nice at the same time.
Kyle is really sweet and funny too, and he's a lot more quiet than Tony.
So over Christmas break I was texting Tony a lot and we talked about a bunch of stuff...and he started telling me about Kyle and how he likes me and wants to go out with me. And he kept asking me if I like him (for the record, I do, a little =]...).
Then, I texted Tony and said "so, do you like anyone?" and he texted back with "yeah, you" so I said "haha. ok no really who do you like?" and he says &...
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Swearing
Posted Tuesday January 5 2010, 6:44 pm
There's this guy that told me he likes me...Can we call him Mike?
We text a lot & we joke around all the time with each other
Mike was just texting me and we were talking and suddenly he started swearing at me totally randomly...like calling me a fucking bitch...and then he would send a message like "ahahhahahahahahhahahahahahahhahahahahahhahahahah" and then go back to swearing at me.
Um what's the deal? I couldn't tell if he was being serious or joking, because everytime I would tell him to knock it off he'd say "fuck you bitch"
.....
Thanks.
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Am i pretty? *pictures*
Posted Tuesday January 5 2010, 4:38 pm
Am i pretty? Ugly? 1-10. guys- would you go out with me? Be honest...
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thanks.
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Valentines/Birthday
Posted Tuesday January 5 2010, 2:56 pm
My boyfriends birthday clashes right with Valentines Day. Therefore I want to make it extra special. I'm borrowing 2 heart shaped cake pans. My boyfriend loves yellow cake w/ chocolate icing. I on the other hand wanted to make a red velvet cake with cream cheese icing, and decorate the both of them.
I just really needed some designs. They can have names on them or anything. Something really romantic and cute. This is our first vday together, we've been together 6 months!
& I really wanted to make it special. Unique.
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met him was so happy..now idk how he feels
Posted Tuesday January 5 2010, 11:34 am
18 f
Hey guys sry if its long but I'd appreciate the help !
So about 2 months ago I was in the train and I saw a gorgeous guy
He started looking back at me and we exchanged glances and
Even a couple of smiles. Then like 10 mins later he comes a little
Closer and says hi my name is nate and he asks for my name
And was just a total gentlemen and looked really sweet.
Then when he was about to get of asked for my number to keep
In touch. I was so excited because he was a total cutie.
Btw, before he left he invited me to a club. Now that isn't
Something I normally do. I'm a total romantic girl I love going
Out to dinner with my guy or going to watch a movie.
S...
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I love two guys? I have no clue what to do.
Posted Tuesday January 5 2010, 12:07 am
Hey.. 14f...
Ok right now i have a bf..we've been dating for 6 months or more. He is an alright boy friend..the problem is that, we hardly get to talk..only by texting and phone calls. He never calls me.. When i text him he always has his phone off. Now at school he's sweet at the dances we have so much fun. Thats why i can't figure out what to do. My best friend introduced me to this guy louis..lou. >.< I helped him feel better when he was upset..and i started to have some feelings for him. He's really funny and sweet. When i told my best friend that i had a little crush on him she told him. I didn't want her to. Than he said he likes me to.We started talking and he was soo sweet to me he tells me things that my bf has never ...
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what to sayy.
Posted Monday January 4 2010, 10:28 pm
so i snowboard a lott. and i always see a bunch of cute guys there. i want to strike up a conversation with them but i don't want it to look like i'm desperate you know? so what can i say/do?
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ignoring me?
Posted Monday January 4 2010, 10:25 pm
my boyfriend hasn't called in 4 days. i have no idea why. usually it has something to do with me being a bitch or something along those lines, other times its just him being busy, but even then he'll call after just a couple of days. the last time we talked was when he told me that we couldn't get together on new years, and i was pretty upset about it for a while but got over it quickly.
like i said, usually if he's acting like this, i know the reason or have a pretty good idea. but as of right now, i am COMPLETELY in the dark and totally confused. should i wait for him to call me, which might be never, depending on why hes mad (if he's mad), or should i wait for a certain length of time and call him? anyone have any ideas?
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BoYs!?
Posted Monday January 4 2010, 10:02 pm
Female/17. (SORRY ITS LONG) So I have a problem, usually when I meet guys I to get to know them and become friends.Then it ends up them liking me. But I dont like them back that way. Then they get hurt when I tell them I just wanna be friends. Its happened quite alot too. I also havent had a bf in awhile and how else am I going to get one is if I dont get out and meet some guys, become friends with them and see if theres anything more. But everytime there hasnt been! Now there is this new guy i have only hung out with 3 times and he already told me he likes me, but so far I dont like like him back that way, he is nice and cool so far...I just feel like theres something wrong with me! I am gonna have to break his heart when it ends up me say...
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just dnt understand how
Posted Monday January 4 2010, 6:23 pm
ok so i had the begings of a yeast infection and sex with my boyfriend and every thing was fine and like a week or to later he textes me saying he was washing and found something he didnt tell me what it was but he wasnt my first and never had any complaints and now hes furious but im fine my yeast infections gone soooooooooooooooooo could it have been contatious or what
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Moved, in a LDR, torn
Posted Monday January 4 2010, 2:49 pm
19/M My girlfriend and I broke up, awhile back, and my fam and I moved to an island I Love, but right after moving , my girl and I got back together and were even more in love, she is incredible! Problem is, she's on the mainland US, I'm here. My family's here, and were really close. It is SO hard to be away from either. My girl is everthing to me, but everything else I love is here. I really don't like anything else about living there on the mainland. But I can't stand being away from her. I don't know what to do anymore, any help or advice would be great! Thank you!
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very confused
Posted Monday January 4 2010, 1:25 pm
So recently i've been upset over a guy who basically just wanted to use me for sex and we had a good friendship for a while and it died out and i wrote him a long letter telling how i felt and he didn't even respond and we basically stopped talking.I met someone new the other night on new years and we got a long good and we've been talking and he's been texting me and he is for sure interested in me.I'm slightly interested as well and he is getting my mind off of the other guy.For some reason,whenever a guy i just met shows interest in me,i always get a weird feeling.It's like a feeling that I get every time a guy gives me attention and likes me and it makes me like them less.I guess I like a hard to get guy.But I know myself and that if i ...
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torn between two what should i do ?
Posted Monday January 4 2010, 3:42 am
\'m 15 years old
and i\'m currently in a relationship with this guy ! hes really something special to !
ireally don\'t deserve him but hes means the world to mii ,
but i\'m still and love with someone else !
weve been talking for a while !
and i gotta admit we really got something !
hes more of a hustler so hes always and the streets !
he calls mii and text mii and tells mii he loves mii every chance he gets !
hes very popular so everybody knows him !
alot of girls like him !
and hes kinda a player !
i worry about who hes with when hes not with me ! but i spend most of my time with him!
ikant really get upset about the things i here !
kuz he doesn\'...
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15 and 17
Posted Monday January 4 2010, 1:18 am
So I'm 15. I like this guy who is 17, he's a senior now and I'm a sophomore. Is that a big age difference? He'll be 18 in a couple months so it would be considered an adult. We're friends and all so its cool. I'm just wondering about the age and how it would be when he turns 18.
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love
Posted Monday January 4 2010, 1:15 am
15/f
I'm going out with this guy. I can't say I love him. I don't. I like him but I can't say its love. My boyfriend told me he loves me. He really acts like it but I can't bring myself to believe it. He's 16 and I don't know if I can even bring myself to believe someone can love someone if they're like 15 and 16? I mean one of my friends always says she's in love and all stuff like that. You can tell its not true. I told him I don't believe him. I'm pretty honest with him and all. He really insists that he does. He really cares about me, I know that. Just how do I handle it? He told me and I act awkward about it..
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my guy and another guy
Posted Monday January 4 2010, 1:10 am
15/f
So I'm going out with this guy since the beginning of November. He cares about me alot and its crazy. I do like him. But the thing is, when he first asked me out. I liked another guy but still decided to give my boyfriend a chance. I still like the other guy, alot. He's one of my friends so he's harder to get over. He likes me too but he doesn't know how I feel about him. He's definitely not happy about me getting another boyfriend and tells me about it. I don't let his opinion change what I do. It's just, I still have feelings for him but I still like my boyfriend. It's not easy to forget about him because I talk to him every week. We see each other like 3 or 4 times a week and I'm friends with his sister so I see him way more....
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Long distance relationship..break up?
Posted Sunday January 3 2010, 11:46 pm
Been in a long distance relationship for 6 months now. Lately, all we do is argue. It's always over really, really petty things, obviously because we're so frustrated with not being able to physically be with eachother, and we just miss eachother to bits.
Usually I want to fix the argument right away, but the last little argument we had, I just turned off my phone for 4 hours, and didn't talk to him. And honestly, it felt good. Of course I still worried, oh god, he's going to be so mad..but I felt worry free for a little while.
I never told him this, just said I left my phone at home on accident while I went out. But today we had another spat, and instead of solving it he just went to sleep. So, usually I text ...
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matters of the heart
Posted Sunday January 3 2010, 9:42 pm
ok so im keep telling myself im over my freind let's call him ron, i mean he is dating my friends lets call her tracy. Ron liked her a lot it was really annoying and i had feelings for him at the time. so i got those two together and im happy they are. but everytime i see them together i get this sharp pain in my chest for a moment and than im fine. the thing is i want to be over ron so bad i've like him to long and i need to move on, but i just can't. I DON'T KNOW WHY!! it is so freakin annoying. Its my last semester in high school and its time to tie up lose ends but this problem will not go away. what should i do? i thought getting together would help and i be over this but its just become worse. UGH HELP!!!
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