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I love two guys? I have no clue what to do.
Hey.. 14f...
Ok right now i have a bf..we've been dating for 6 months or more. He is an alright boy friend..the problem is that, we hardly get to talk..only by texting and phone calls. He never calls me.. When i text him he always has his phone off. Now at school he's sweet at the dances we have so much fun. Thats why i can't figure out what to do. My best friend introduced me to this guy louis..lou. >.< I helped him feel better when he was upset..and i started to have some feelings for him. He's really funny and sweet. When i told my best friend that i had a little crush on him she told him. I didn't want her to. Than he said he likes me to.We started talking and he was soo sweet to me he tells me things that my bf has never told me.Than one day he told me he loved me and i was like woaha. He was so romantic with me and i fell for him. The couple of days i was to scared to say those 3 words.. last night i did and i felt guilty. :/ I can't help what i feel though. My best friend now tells me that i shouldn't cheat on him and that he deserves better than me. :/ I think so. I loves arizona but Lou :/ My friend Cierra at first told me i should date lou, because Arizona will be moving and if he doesnt text me or call me now it won't be any diffrent than when he's somewhere else. I don't want to hurt anyone i really don't. Lou told me that he would let go if i told him to, nd i asked him if he really would and he said no i couldn't really..all the things he tells me i believe them..he hasn't shown me any reason he could be lieing. I showed my friend Cierra what he says, and she says its fake. :/ I have no clue who to pick...i think lou..please help out and don't criticize i already feel guilty enough..to cry:/ thanks to who ever trys to help :/
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Sit down and truely think who you want to be with do what makes you happy there's no point of being in
a relationship if your miserable plus your current boyfriend will be moving long distance relationships
usually don't work out and the couples break up depending on how far apart they are from one another i don't think Lou would lie to you he wouldn't of said all those things to you if they weren't true so yes i do think he's telling the truth as far as Arizona is concerned i think you should ask him why hasn't he called you or why the two of you haven't spoken as much you deserve to know that seeing as the two of you are dating try and straighten the situation out your friend Cierra shouldn't jump to conclusions so quickly and just assume that what Lou said to you was fake since she truely doesn't know what's true and what's not(:
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-im 18 male and from the UK-
Ok so you like 2 guys? you cant be seriously in love with them both? you can feel very strongley about others but only just meeting some one and saying you lov them is a bit fast... but anyways! you probably know better than i do abotu the way you feel.
So your bf Arizona<(?) he's moving right? he doesnt text or call you, sounds like your not on his mind as much as he is on your's. But texting and calling is a very small thing/part in a relationship.
Lou on the other hand has allready confessed his love for you right? how long have you actually known eachother? does he seem like he could a be a potential BF? or are your feelings misplaced from a maybe boring relationship you allready have with Ari'?
im just throwing ideas out there You really need to think about whats going to work out better for you. Sure arizona's moving soon but do you want him to go thinking you cheated, fell out of love for him or just forgot about him and moved on quickly? you still care for him a great deal and if he's been faitfull to you up till now you at least owe him that last bit of gratitude and trust. It depends on what option you take, go out with lou and leav ari' broken hearted or stay with ari' and when he's soon to lave (maybe a week or so) do what my ex did to me and say you cant handle the long distance aspect of dating. he will not like that idea but he may agree with it and it will ease up on things for you, not having to worry about the distanc between you and him and the tension of having lou there to break his heart if he ever finds out. If your thikin of taking this advice and do carry it out, then dont get with lou straight away. you just met the guy give it a month or 2 to get to know him. you cant rush good love. fast love with only frustrate you.
Hopefully i helped alot
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