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Two best friends...
I made these new guy friends in a class recently that I sit with.
Two of them are best friends...we'll call them...Tony and Kyle.
Tony is kind of perverted and loud but really funny and nice at the same time.
Kyle is really sweet and funny too, and he's a lot more quiet than Tony.
So over Christmas break I was texting Tony a lot and we talked about a bunch of stuff...and he started telling me about Kyle and how he likes me and wants to go out with me. And he kept asking me if I like him (for the record, I do, a little =]...).
Then, I texted Tony and said "so, do you like anyone?" and he texted back with "yeah, you" so I said "haha. ok no really who do you like?" and he says "no really, me and kyle both do"
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so i asked "if you like me to, why are you trying to get me and kyle to go out?" and he said "because i'm nervous" and we kind of left it at that
So...
I'm sort of torn between two guys?
like I said before...
Kyle is really sweet and I sort of like him
but Tony is also really nice and I'm closer to him
If you were in this situation, what would you do...?
Thank you very much<3
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So you have 2 courses of action here.
1. Be responsible. Sit down and think about which you like better. Then you have to ask yourself what it will do you friendship with them, plus what it will do to their friendships with each other. From there, you weigh the options and figure out if dating either of them would be worth the costs.
2. Become a player, like the rest of us. This requires a complete and utter disregard for their feelings, really, and also requires a certain level of conniving effort to keep it under wraps while you date both. It's complicated, but a lot of fun.
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Sit down and really think about who you'd like to be with and who you get along with better if you sort of like Kyle then i'd say go with Tony since your more closer to him you could hang out with them or talk to them more and see what happens and where the conversation goes then make your decision
see what happens in class with the both of them if things progress and if they get better(:
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