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met him was so happy..now idk how he feels
18 f
Hey guys sry if its long but I'd appreciate the help !
So about 2 months ago I was in the train and I saw a gorgeous guy
He started looking back at me and we exchanged glances and
Even a couple of smiles. Then like 10 mins later he comes a little
Closer and says hi my name is nate and he asks for my name
And was just a total gentlemen and looked really sweet.
Then when he was about to get of asked for my number to keep
In touch. I was so excited because he was a total cutie.
Btw, before he left he invited me to a club. Now that isn't
Something I normally do. I'm a total romantic girl I love going
Out to dinner with my guy or going to watch a movie.
So the next day he called and asked me to email him a pic.
I said sure then he said a sexy pic?? I was a little confused and just
Sent him a normal pic but he kept asking me for a pic and to
Put on some shorts. I told him that I'm not that kind of girl
And that I need to get to know him. So he said ok. Btw he's 20 yrs old.
Anyway the next day he invited me to go clubbing again. I said I couldn't
And I called him the next day and invited him to the movies.
He said he hates the movies and would rather me to go over to drink??
I don't drink. I'm a total good girl, haha. So anyway we haven't spoke
Lately and idk wat to do. He's so cute but I don't club. Or drink.
I feel like we live in 2 diff worlds. He was a total gentlemen
When I met him. I guess I just want him to like me becuase I have
This huge crush on him and I can't stop thinking about him. I tried
But it didn't work. I guess I just wanted to give him a try and see if
It could work out but we have 2 diff interests. I wanna hang out with
Him but don't know what to say when I call him. Any ideas or advice about
The whole situation? Thanks !!
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As soon as I read your story, I got the "chills". I felt some bad vibes, girl! Please don't pursue this guy! I envision some creepy and even life-threatening things happening if you do what he is asking you to do! Maybe I am crazy... but I would feel better if you found a different cutie to chase after! I think it is great that you haven't "given in" and followed him to some club or sent some "sexy pics". That's such a BAD sign. Can I say it one more time??? PLEASE forget about him and protect yourself! You won't think that he is so cute after he has raped you. Sorry for being so EXREME... good luck!
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Sorry, I know it sucks to hear, but this guy was only interested in one thing and when he figured out he wasn't going to get it from you he backed off. Asking you to send a "sexy pic" when he just met you? Your instincts were dead on in this situation and you were right to feel uncomfortable with that. It wasn't right or gentlemanly and its a bit creepy. If he hasn't returned your text and he didn't want to go the movies I'd say its time to face the reality that he isn't the kind of guy you hoped he'd be. But you sound incredibly sweet and level-headed. Keep holding out for that gentleman. Sure, the creeps like this guy will come along every once in a while, but keep following your instincts and you'll end up finding a guy who can appreciate you and enjoy you for the sweet, "good girl" you are, and it will be wonderful!
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