my boyfriend hasn't called in 4 days. i have no idea why. usually it has something to do with me being a bitch or something along those lines, other times its just him being busy, but even then he'll call after just a couple of days. the last time we talked was when he told me that we couldn't get together on new years, and i was pretty upset about it for a while but got over it quickly.
like i said, usually if he's acting like this, i know the reason or have a pretty good idea. but as of right now, i am COMPLETELY in the dark and totally confused. should i wait for him to call me, which might be never, depending on why hes mad (if he's mad), or should i wait for a certain length of time and call him? anyone have any ideas?
Additional info, added Wednesday January 6 2010, 9:13 pm: ok so a lot of people told me to try and call him, (this is two days after i asked the question, and he still hasn't called) so i did. the first time i called, the other day, no one answered. so then i just now tried calling again, and it stopped ringing and disconnected. meaning, someone over at his house ignored the call. (most likely him).
OhMyLucyDarling answered Tuesday January 5 2010, 6:12 pm: Try calling him? ...If you DO call him on regular basis and he still does this then maybe he is trying to tell you he needs some space. Communication IS the key in relationships and if this is going to work then you two better start talking more. [ OhMyLucyDarling's advice column | Ask OhMyLucyDarling A Question ]
Cux answered Tuesday January 5 2010, 3:21 pm: Call him. Girls are just as capable as guys are, and they can pick up the phone and call the guy.
Also, I wouldn't assume that something is wrong, but I wouldn't assume that nothing is wrong, either. Wait until you actually talk to him to judge the situation.
There are a lot of reasons people don't call. I'm sure there is a legitimate reason why he hasn't.
sunshine1232 answered Tuesday January 5 2010, 10:09 am: Call him and see why he hasn't called you so you aren't left wondering and you'll know exactly
why i also wouldn't jump to conclusions there could be plenty of reasons but your best option is to just call him up and ask if it was something you did wrong or if he was just busy i wouldn't wait cause it could be a while depending on what he's doing(: [ sunshine1232's advice column | Ask sunshine1232 A Question ]
crazya answered Tuesday January 5 2010, 7:39 am: well there could be many reasons.. 1. guilt, maybe he cheated on you... ( i hope not!) 2. maybe you did something but you can't remember what it was.. or thirdly he could just be doing that to see if your going to call him.. so i think you should just call and see whats up, and ask him whats going on? [ crazya's advice column | Ask crazya A Question ]
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