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I did it...
Posted Sunday January 24 2010, 9:51 pm
Hey all, 22/f here. I posted this question:
http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=576604
I finally decided to stop trying to talk myself into it, and ended the relationship.
Now I hurt =(. When I broke up with him, my heart physically hurt...but anyway, I did it. Now I keep wondering if I made the right decision.
I'm scared to death of the withdrawal I'm going to feel when I start to miss him. I haven't yet, because I don't think it's sunk in that I ended it.
Has anyone else ended a really long relationship and dealt with it successfully? I know to keep myself busy (that won't be a problem, I'm taking 12 credits in psychology and working 37.5 hours a week at tw...
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Not hearin from my man in over a week
Posted Sunday January 24 2010, 8:44 pm
So am 20 and my man is 18 he moved cause he as to take care of his mom in a different state and his coming back in march to get me. He told me that it will be two weeks till i hear from him and its been over a week but i still haven't heard from him i know i need to stop trippin but just what everyone is saying its hard, and i don't know what to say cause he likes his drugs and he was scared incase he got back on them and i just dont know what to do really would i just be like whatever he goes ahold of me he gets ahold of me or she i keep having faith in him that he will get ahold of me when he can cause he don't have a phone he can call me from
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How-to
Posted Sunday January 24 2010, 6:33 pm
18/m
There's a girl who lives in my building. I only see her probably once a week but for whatever reason I'm very attracted to her. I haven't ever spoken to her before cause the only time I see her we are going in opposite directions. I really want to talk her and see if she wants to hang out but I'm not sure how to do it without looking like a creepy stalker. Usually when I do this sort of thing, I've had some sort of relation to the girl before I ask her out. I figure I'll just ask her if she just wants to go get some coffee or a coke or something and just hang out. Any suggestions?
Thanks fellas
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for all the guys out there
Posted Sunday January 24 2010, 5:35 pm
For guys only...
What traits, looks, etc do you like in a girl?
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just one problem...
Posted Sunday January 24 2010, 5:31 pm
Ok so there is this guy that I was flirting with at a party and we connected like it was amazing. I had such a good time. I dont think I've ever talked to a guy like him. There's just one problem...he has a girlfriend. They've been going out for a few years. However I hear that they dont even really like each other anymore since its been so long. They're seniors and I'm a junior. She tells him he can hook up with other girls...nice relationship? Its really weird and I would never go out of my way for someone else's guy but I seriously think us together would be soo good.I could tell he was so into me and I thought it was strange considering he has a gf so he had to really like me. Any tips? What should I do? Thaaanks.
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boy doesnt like me
Posted Sunday January 24 2010, 1:48 pm
im a senior and i went to school with this boy for all highschool.
hes extremly popular inside and outside my school and is just really cool.
i really wanted to get with him so i started flirting and whatever with him but just as i started doing that a sophmore girl did to and they were talking like 24/7 and they hooked up. i essentionaly "lost" even though he never really knew i wanted him.
this sophmore is really ugly (im not saying this out of spite- i would be honest, expecially here where no one even knows me) and just not in his leage and im just so angry that they are like togetherish now and i dont know what to do.
what you think?
how do i get him!
why was she chosen over me?
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ended up with a player
Posted Sunday January 24 2010, 12:54 pm
16/f
So, just recently I found out that my boyfriend of a month is a compulsively lying player, horrible, I know. One of my best guy friends, "David" gave me insight. I know you're not supposed to listen to he say she say but, I always suspected that something was off about him. Everything that David told me seemed to add up about him. Apparently before we became an item, he was messing around with a lot of girls at one time (including me). And David told me that it was all because of our physical attributes. When I asked my boyfriend about it, it seemed like he was leaving stuff out. So, I decided that I want to leave him. Do you think it's wrong for me to want to dump him? Also,I wouldn't know how to go about "dumpin...
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So worried
Posted Sunday January 24 2010, 5:50 am
I have this talent show coming up and this I like asked me to do a duet with him and I have NO IDEA of what song to do. Any ideas? I like r&b. Songs like My boo by Alicia Keys and stuff. Nothing to old please! I'll rate.
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My Boyfriend
Posted Sunday January 24 2010, 4:26 am
I love my boyfriend. with all i have. we have been together for 9 months and i know, i KNOW i love him. but he and i are a really close couple. our lives kinda suck so we stick to each other. we are very dependent, we are each others best friends, each others everything. he used to have a ton of friends though and now hes not close to a lot of people. i know its because of me. i kind of stole him away from all of them. he REALLY wants close friendships with guys again and i can tell its really bothering him. he doesnt blame me, but i do. ive been thinking maybe its best if i let him go. like that saying if you really care about someone you have to let them go. because i really think hed be happier and healthier if he went out and was on his...
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Is this bad?
Posted Sunday January 24 2010, 2:18 am
15/f sorry if this is in the wrong category..
Okay, so I met this guy on Deviantart (a site where you post artwork and such). We talk a lot, and I think he may be interested in me. I would be fine with this, but he is an adult. He knows I am only 15, but he keeps flirting with me and e-mailing and calls me by all of these cute nicknames. Is that bad? Should I stop talking to him? I dont know what to do. I feel guilty, like I'm doing something bad. But at the same time, I see all of these girls that date older guys. Someone please tell me what to do!
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me, drugs, my bf
Posted Sunday January 24 2010, 1:43 am
20/f
I was a coke addict among other drugs but coke was a huge issue for me. I have been smoking weed since I was 11 years old.My reason is to help with depression and bipolar which I have been diagnosed with. Well I quit when I went to rehab due to drug tests. I started having horrible craving for coke again and decided that smoking would substantially curb my cravings and help relax me from the stress. My bf found out and then said he wanted to break up with me. I love him so much and he means a lot to me but smoking to me is really important. My mom said she cut down her smoking when she learned to manage her depression and she believes that I will too. I just don't know what to do about him. What do I say? I need his support right now bc I'm having an extremely rough time.
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Do looks matter?
Posted Saturday January 23 2010, 10:56 pm
I hope that looks don't matter because i am still VERY traditional with my dating, and i'm not very pretty.
14/f
do i still have a chance?
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she had just lost interest in me T.T
Posted Saturday January 23 2010, 10:16 pm
what should i do.. there is this girl that i became a friend and then we fell for each other.. we open up our feelings and we have the same, she said that she loves me and i love her too but all of a sudden she has change and said that she is not yet ready for a relationship..
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major heartache no clue how to deal
Posted Saturday January 23 2010, 7:56 pm
my boyfriend of 2 years broke up with me monday because i had no time for him and he thinks i like someone else (which i dont) and im going on a diet and he thinks its taking up my time he said our relationship was sh*t and it was a waste of our time in his words he sincereley wanted OUT. then yesterday i found out he had another girlfriend with none other than a friend that we both have. im pissed beyond belief and i dont know what to do. i still talk to the girl but its really hard to be interested in what shes saying and i want nothing to do with my ex right now. i dont want to hear about their freakin relationship at all. i want him to hurt soo bad i know its not nice but i cant help it. and im starting to cry about it now. how do i mak...
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romance gone bad
Posted Saturday January 23 2010, 4:43 pm
So i am almost 17 and I have an ex that is 18 we recently broke up and now my period is REALLY! late. Well I was hanging out with my guy friend and we had sex. I have know him for 5 years and we have always liked each other. Well when I told my ex he got made then he took me home. He went to my friends house and tried to kill him. My friend got the knife from my ex and ended up getting his finger cut off. He ended up in the ER so I went down with him feeling bad like it was all my fault and my ex said he would go to the cops and say it was rape when I promise you it was not and now I am stuck because I don't want to be with my ex at fear of him getting mad at me me but my mom wont let me see or talk to either of them until this is all blown...
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Its been a while now and i still think about her and miss her like mad
Posted Saturday January 23 2010, 2:15 pm
Me and this amazing girl i met last year around november time dated for a month or so. before her i hadnt had a GF for 7 years because i wasnt really all that interested in heart break (not that anyone is...) I fell for her HARD she was everything i ever looked for in a person, to cut a happy story short we broke up because she was moving for uni', its been about 3-4 ish months now since i was with her. i lost my virginity to her and she made me so happy it was unbelievable. but im still thinking about her everyday it used to hurt alot but now she just sticks in my mind for days on end remembering the night we spent... the moment we met... that first kiss and every little thing we talked about on that day.
I dont get out alo...
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lost earings
Posted Saturday January 23 2010, 2:08 pm
hey, my boyfriend gave me a really pretty ear ring and necklace set. Its gold and has a pretty blue topaz stone at the bottom and a baby diamond and there is gold little swish on it too. I'm not sure where he got it and that's the problem. I lost the ear rings and I want to replace them so that he doesn't know that I lost them. I have the box it came in, and it was black, with a white ribbon glued to it and it closed with a magnent, and it says on the sticker on the bottom "18k ss bl tpz set" is there any way that can help me find out where to replace it?
thankss <3
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THE PERFECT MAN?
Posted Saturday January 23 2010, 2:07 pm
What traits, to you, does the PERFECT GUY possess?? State all the traits you think would make up the perfect, possibly unattainable guy...
I need this for my online project :) xxx Thanks in advance
Please help! And don't leave anything out!!
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does he like me? or not?
Posted Saturday January 23 2010, 1:21 pm
okay im 13 and im a girl and im in the middle scool i kissed a guy at our basket ball game in the bleachers about every where now i like him but i dont no if he likes me how do i know he like me and how could i make him go out with me give me advice please!
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angry exboyfriend.
Posted Saturday January 23 2010, 11:35 am
me and my ex have been broken up for about a week and a half.
i was realllly sad about it so i decided to go out to a party wtih my friend and one thing led to another and i made out with a guy becuase i was drunk. but im not using that as an excuse because thats no reason to.
so we started talking a couple days ago and i felt really bad so i told him and he blew up on me. he has no right to be mad right? we werent together. so he told me we are done ( even though we already were ) i think he meant done tlaking. and im like begging him and he told me hes gonna go talk to this girl that likes him and im reallly upset and i dont know what to do. im begging him and hes telling me to leave him alone that were done for good. and im...
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