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she had just lost interest in me T.T
what should i do.. there is this girl that i became a friend and then we fell for each other.. we open up our feelings and we have the same, she said that she loves me and i love her too but all of a sudden she has change and said that she is not yet ready for a relationship..
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well you can't help that she doesn't want a relationship. but that doesn't mean you don't have to stop having feeling for her. She will tell you when its to much. just keep doing what yor doing until you know for sure thereal reason she is distant.
Lillian
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i was that girl once :/ and it wasnt on purpose. you can love a person with all of your heart and STILL not be ready to commit. the thing is.. she just needs time and she needs to be the one whos ready. if you try to force her into a relationship with you when shes not ready, things will go down the drain.. and quickly.
so you should keep talking to her, let her know that youll wait for her until shes ready to be in a relationship and that she can take her time. love is a very complicated process. it could have been her first time actually loving someone and her first time saying it.. then she freaked herself out. there are so many reasons as to why she said this and then told you shes not ready for anything serious. maybe try talking to her about it..
but if i were you, id just let it go for now.. let it play itself out and let her call the shots. she loves you, and thats probably a big step for her. so just support her in her decision to not be in a relationship yet. but dont give up.. youre both in love :]
good luck ! if you need anything else, feel free to inbox me, hope i helped :] xxo.
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I don't think she lost interest in you. She still loves you but she is still not ready to go to the next level yet. Just give her some time. That's how it is. She said she "still not ready yet" so you still have a chance!!! Don't lose hope!!!
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