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soo, if my boyfriend had a wet spot on his jeans (could have been pre cum or ejaculation, i think it was ejaculation] and i had jeans on but i was straddling him and that was around december 19, could have been earlier or later, and now its january 23.. could i be pregnant?? i feel like im getting bigger (like getting a stomach) like i cannot be pregnant from MAKING OUT. i will honestly die. or kill myself honestly. like, after i had my period on the 3rd (of this month i think.. i spotted for about a week after that) im freaking out. ive never spotted before, but i have long periods. my parents would kill me. im only 17. help me?
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Oh, wow! I am so sorry I didn't answer this sooner!
I'm so sad that the rumor that "sperm dies instantly outside of the body" or "sperm dies instantly when it hits air" is still being spread, especially on Advicenators. No, sperm does not "die instantly" or even "within seconds" after being ejaculated outside of the body. It does not! The sperm swim slower outside of the body, live shorter lifespans (A LOT more than seconds, believe me), and are mostly dead by the time the ejaculate actually dries (which takes more than seconds, right? Hours in some conditions, right? Right.). If the sperm is on a body part then the body temperature can keep the little guys alive for quite some time. Sperm are amazing little creatures.
Just for reference, men who are trying to raise their sperm count are told to wear loose clothing on their bottom half to help the temperature drop to a cooler temperature. Hmm...doesn't sound like the sperm are DYING from the temperature drop, does it?
If oxygen (or anything in our air) killed the sperm then NOBODY would get pregnant. It's ridiculously unbelievable to think that we, females, have no sort of "air" or "oxygen" in our vaginas. Our vaginas are simply fleshy HOLES--and what happens to be in holes, typically? Air. And when you shove something in a hole, what is pushed first into that hole? Air. And, speaking of this, what are queefs? Air being released from the...VAGINA! Yes, AIR/OXYGEN does NOT kill sperm!
Yes, pregnancy is very possible actually.
Pre-ejaculate still contains some sperm, even though it's a lot less than a complete ejaculation. A full ejaculation contains as many as 100 million sperm at a time, and sperm within pre-ejaculate can be as many as a few million.
If semen got to the moistened area of the vagina then you could have been impregnated, very easily at that.
Sperm can "swim" through fabric even as long as it's moist. It doesn't even have to be "wet" for them to be able to travel through it. A little moisture is all they need to survive the journey. The moisture can come from the pre-ejaculate itself, your own moisture from your vagina, or even sweat that you two may release during the activity.
If his "wet spot on his jeans" made your jeans wet all the way through to your vagina then it was a risky activity. Plain and simple.
It only takes one sperm to fertilize one egg and create one baby. A few million sperm within one pre-ejaculate is a lot more than one. If conditions are right then the sperm that do travel into the vagina can survive anywhere between 5 to 7 days, and in absolutely perfect conditions they have been found still alive at 2 weeks!
If you are going to continue to engage in risky sexual activities like this and do not plan to become pregnant then please take the proper precautionary measures and use a condom. Condoms help to prevent pregnancies to about 88% with typical usage. If you are not willing to take oral contraceptives or any form of hormonal birth control then you are left with either condoms or risking pregnancy. You need to make a decision, together, on which is the best option. Creating another life simply because you wanted to have a little unprotected fun is not very bright and can cause a lot of problems in your future. Get your priorities straight before continuing these activities.
If you have any more questions please feel free to ask me! :)
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Scientifically impossible. It would have to go through his underwear, jeans and then your jeans and underwear to enter a vagina to have a shot at making you pregnant. It can't. You're fine.
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You aren't pregnant.
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I highly doubt that you are pregnant hun. Sperm dies when it hits the air and since both of you had jeans on, it's highly unlikely. Also, since you actually did have a period, I wouldn't worry about it. However, if the spotting freaks you out too much, you could go see a doctor about it, but I don't believe it's because you are pregnant. Hope I helped :]
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