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Hi ♥

My name is Ashley ♥

I've been around for 16 years and it will be 17 on November 13th ♥

My friends call me the doctor ♥

They always ask me for advice and I try to help them the best that I can ♥

So people, the doctor is in lol ♥

I'll be happy to help you =)


advice

can you contract an STD from giving a blow job?say that you gave someone a blowjob and you swallowed can this make your tonsils flare up and get infected2-3days later or am i just getting the flu?

Yes, it is definately possible. I would advise you to go see a doctor, just to be sure it's not something other than the flu. Hope I helped :]

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soo, if my boyfriend had a wet spot on his jeans (could have been pre cum or ejaculation, i think it was ejaculation] and i had jeans on but i was straddling him and that was around december 19, could have been earlier or later, and now its january 23.. could i be pregnant?? i feel like im getting bigger (like getting a stomach) like i cannot be pregnant from MAKING OUT. i will honestly die. or kill myself honestly. like, after i had my period on the 3rd (of this month i think.. i spotted for about a week after that) im freaking out. ive never spotted before, but i have long periods. my parents would kill me. im only 17. help me?

I highly doubt that you are pregnant hun. Sperm dies when it hits the air and since both of you had jeans on, it's highly unlikely. Also, since you actually did have a period, I wouldn't worry about it. However, if the spotting freaks you out too much, you could go see a doctor about it, but I don't believe it's because you are pregnant. Hope I helped :]

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what kind of candy doesnt make your breath smell funny after you eat it before your going to kiss someone?

Skittles
Skittles always smell good lol

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whats up im stephanie and im 15 going on 16 years old i have a boyfriend and he'z 16.We only been goin out 4 bout a week now..we kiss hold handz ect. but no real feelingz now..im new in town so i really dont know him but when he asked me out i said yes simply cuz i think hez cute..all my friendz say he will cheat on you and he had sex with all these diffrent girls..when i see him i think his sweet and innocent but since im hispanic and hez african american alot of african american girls dont like me simply because i go out with a black boy..i sat down and talked to him about all the rumors about him and he explained to me he is not like dat 4 sum strange reason i truley believe him!!! i neva see him talkin to anotha girl or flirtin with someone else and he isnt tell you da truth dat sexual around me..plzzzz some one help me am i juzz blid or maybe he changed and i cud juzz give him a chance

Hi. Well, first off a relationship is all about trust. Since you don't know him that well or anyone for that matter, I think you should trust him, for now. As you guys grow closer, you will really see him for who he is. As for the girls, I would just ignore them and enjoy your time with your dude. :)

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I will not make this a long, drawn out story, but will say that my ex and I dated on/off for 8 months. We broke up Feb 07, but we often run into each other around town. He has asked me to get back together several times, but I'm so afraid that the same things that will happen that led to us breaking up. He randomly texts or calls me just saying "I want you back". All last summer I dated a guy and I thought things were great. We broke up just before school started and now I find out that things weren't what they seemed at all. He was using me and talking to "his first love" the whole four months we were together. Deep down I knew that I was just going through the motions of dating this guy in the summer. I still had feelings for my 1st bf. When he heard I was single, he called me and we tried to go out again, but it didn't work. I stayed single until Jan 08 and now I go out with a guy who is okay, but I'm starting to have mixed feelings about him. He yells at me all of the time and anytime I get in trouble with my parents he tells me it is obviously because I am extremely stupid. It really hurts when he talks to me like this, but other times we get along. He tells me that he will never break up with me, if I don't want to go out with him it is up to me to break up with him. Well, my first bf has been texting and calling me again for about 2 weeks now. He tells me he will do anything to get me back. We have the same lunch block and he just sits there and stares and smiles at me. Even though I know we don't stand a chance of making things work, I still love him and I want him back. I know it is wrong to talk/text him behind my current bf's back. I even kissed him last week. I want to move on, but I keep getting pulled back by old thoughts and feelings. What should I do? I think I'm going to break up with my current bf because I know it's not fair to stay with him when I have feelings for someone else.

IF you are still very much in love with your ex like you say you are, I believe you two should work things out. The relationship you are in now is obviously not making you happy. You should talk with your ex and all the things that made you guys break up, you should try to work them out. If that doesn't work, you should move on, the relationship really wouldn't work and you should find someone else to occupy your time with.

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i'm 14/f around 5,0.
is 100lbs good as far as weight?
i count calories ( i try)
i try to excercise as much as i can.
is this too much ? -thanks

woah you are perfectly fine! i wish i was 100 lbs lol

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I'm curious to know that if you cry for the boy you like does that really mean you love him enough to even cry for him?

Not really. You could cry over a boy for many reasons. You could be really emotional and would cry if you feelings weren't mutual. Especially if you really cared for that person.

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Hello I have a seriously confused question.
Alright my school is kinda cliqued. Everyone has their own groups they hang out in. I'm not really in one. I' m a short skinny girl, 14 years old, grade 9 4'9" and 80 pounds. Everyone sees me as the smart shy girl in my class, except the people that know me of course:) Anyways theres a guy in my class who has been nice and polite to me since the beginning of the year. The only thing is he is my complete opposite. Filed grade nine once, goof off in class, that kind of thing. But something made me send him a message on facebook a few months ago. Then we started talking on msn then we started going for walks together like every other day. He has never said it but he acts like he likes me saying things like "you bring out the best in me "your fun enough to hang out with". I kind of like him to. He's really nice as I said but I just don't know what to do, even if he asked me out i wouldn't know what to say. He acts completely different at school he told me because the people he hangs out with wouldn't like the nice version of him. Please help he try to understand what to do!!

It definately sounds like he's interested. However, it seems like he is concerned on what his friends might think. He acts differently around you, a girl, and he acts more sensitive. I would first ask myself if I liked him enough to "go out" with him. If that is the case I would definately advise you to stick around. As long as he treats you right that's all that should matter, right? I hope this helped in some kind of little way.

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I'm not flexible at ALL and I really need to gain some flexibility.

Question is, how?
Please don't say yoga, I've tried it before and it's incredibly boring.

To become flexible you need to stretch!

http://www.wikihow.com/Become-Flexible

If you go there they should tell you how to become more felxible. Hope this helps. :)

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