Member Since: August 1, 2007 Answers: 20 Last Update: September 25, 2007 Visitors: 1283
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okay, so i'm kinda talking to this guy.
well i'v heard he's been around and that like every girl has fallen for him. i think i really like him and i think he likes me too.
but i don't want to be wrapped around his finger/in the palm of his hand.
i kinda just want to play hard to get but still seem interested.
any tips?
if you like want to go in major detail ask for my sn :) (link)
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well, i think you should not like be staring at him all the time, only occasionally look his way and smile. He will know that you think hes hot but not that you are like obsessive. that = big turn on for guys!!!
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Okay well theirs 2 guys i like. I'm stuck inbetween them one moment they act nice one moment they dunt. Like seriously it's so confusing and i really want to know does it seem like they like me?
Teh two guys are lets call them #1 & #2
#1 tried holding hands with me for like two days. And i didn't respond so he stopped. He started ignoring me. So i did the try to get him jelouse thing. He stares at me ALOT! He always asks me to site with him in class. He asked what if i asked you to the dance? . He has this thing on his msn like iloveyou and junk but we never talk on msn. only in person. He doesn't act the same around any girl but he does flirt kinda. Is he trying to make me jelouse. But he acts like i'm invisable alot. Only sometimes he notices me.
#2 we don't know eachother that well. But i love to play with his mind and flirt with him. He's so shy. When i say hi he blushes. He doesn't talk to me alot. But he tells me some personal stuff. He stares at me alot and always blushes when it alk to him. I usually make the move he's to shy but he always responds to it. [flirts back] when we pass by he always stares at me. & When we hug he talks.. He tells so many things to me. but he doesent talk as much and i'm a blabber mouth soo.. yea
yu think any of them like me? (link)
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i think they both like you in different ways. the first one thinks that your cute and kinda likes you, when it seems number two has one serious crush. I think that 2 will open up to you once you get to know him better. It takes time, so use it wisely. Good luck and have fun!
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the other night i was fingered for the first time. i don't know if my friends saw, or if they know or not but i haven't said anything to them and they haven't said anything to me. i always tell my friends this kind of stuff and i kind of feel uncomfortable telling them now because i always said i would never get fingered and then i did... so what should i do if it comes up and they are there? (link)
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well, you can do one of 2 things: shrug it off and just kind of change the topic, but not too obviously. or you can, through the uncomfortableness, tell them! Good luck!
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There is a girl named chelsea that i really like and its not that i just like her i mean i can;t stop thinking about her.. its like every second im thinking about her but the thing is i didn't even talk to her. i dont know what to say and if she would like me or not. she said she really likes tattoes and im going to get one. please help me figure out a way to talk to her.. thanks (link)
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Gather up all your confidence and your courage! You can do it! Say anything, just nothing like "Today i had pancakes" or something stupid like that, if you notice she's into animals, ask her what pets she has. You'll get an opportunity, the hard part is carrying it out. Good luck, and soon enough she might like you as much as you like her!!!
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"i am from nigeria" i told my boyfriend that i cheated on him with my ex-boyfriend. and he got angry, i called and said iam sorry.he has been behaving strange, he doesnt call on phone anymore. (link)
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well its good that you told him, but of course he'd be mad, wouldnt you be, if he cheated on you with his ex? i certaintly would be! Anyway, sit him down and talk about it, no matter how tough it may be to bring up. Do anything that might get your relationship even almost back to normal. Good luck
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my teeth arent white at all, and ive tried to use crest whitening strips, but my teeth are very sensitive, so they hurt when they are on it. is there anything i could buy that will make my teeth white fast without any pain?!!
and not too expensive please!! (link)
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try listerine whitening strips! thats all i can think of thats most inexpensive and also is supposed to be fast and works well.
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Yes, yes, I know. Search Google.
I already did.
It didn't help. I seriously suck with search engines.
But anyway, I love the song on the commercial for Jam Sessions, for the DS, but I don't know that name of it.
Can anyone help me out?
Lyrics:
I ain't got no crystal ball.
I had a million dollars but I, I spent it all.
What I really want to know, my baby,
What I really want to say, I can't define this love that I need. (link)
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This isnt much of an answer, I know, but i LOVE THAT SONG!!! I have no clue of the title, but i heard it and i wondered the same thing.
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16.f.
When I'm with close friends, family, or if I'm comfortable I am very funny and outgoing. When I'm not, I'm quiet and 'laid back." I recently transferred schools. I met some people in my theater class and they thought I was mean! One guy thought I was because I just handed him a paper and didn't tell him what to do with it, but I assumed he knew because the teacher just explained. Another guy liked me (the feeling was NOT mutual, but he was hilarious) and was CLEARLY playing around with me one day and I started backing away with a smile and laughing he said "YOU'RE HELLA MEAN BACKING AWAY. THAT'S MESSED UP." WHAT? I was kidding! I'm starting to think they were intimidated by me because about a week earlier all the guys named me "prettiest girl in the class" and they took everything to heart..... but. EVERYONE always thinks I'm mean! I'm the nicest most sweetest person! I hate when people are mean to each other! WHAt CAN I DO? WHY DO THEY THINK I'M MEAN? This is bothering me. When I meet people I don't want to just expose myself! I have to feel around, ya know? (link)
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woah woah woah. tone it down a bit. i mean, of course theyd be indimidated by you, but (and im just being honest here) by the way you explain yourself, it seems that you might intimidate them not only with your looks, but with your personality as well. you sound very confident, and that can really make girls afraid of you, thus "mean." just try to be as nice (and humble) as possible, and hopefully the intimidation will stop.
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Ok well i want to lose some weight but i cant seem to do it someone told me it's because i'm setting my goals to high and that i should set them lower so do you think like toneing my arms would be a low enough goal? cause i could like say the first month or however long it takes to one my arms then move on to my legs or something then my stomach or something like that (link)
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thats a great idea!!! Focus on one problem area, and soon enough theyll all be gone! have patience though. Good luck!!!
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how do you get rid of the cracks and bleaks that are on your feet? they're so rough that i want to get rid of them as soon as possible! (link)
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I suggest a pedicure. Or you can get all sorts of foot creams and pumice stones (scrubby stones that exfoliate your skin) you can do all sorts of things to help this.
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Last night I was hanging out with this guy and I really was starting to like him. We've been pretty good friends the past couple of years but we've been hanging out alot more recently. We were laying in my bed then starting kissing... he's a horrible kisser. I'm not really sure what my question is. That just really threw me off and I'm all confused now. I really liked him but does anyone agree with me that being a good kisser is kind of a big deal? I'm not sure how I feel anymore or about what to do. We're both 15, turning 16 in a couple of months. (link)
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Say in a really nice way, Hey, *blank*. You know taht i really like you, and it doesnt matter that much, but if you could just try kissing this way, and kiss him the way YOU know how. hopefully that helps a little more! Have fun ;D
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I don't usually look on myspace for guys but anyways...
I was talking to my friend and I lookd at her top and there it was.... a cutie pie! I asked her about him and she said he's really sweet AND just got out of a relationship AND it was bad. *His gf slept with his best friend!* So I backed off. About two months later I noticed my play cousin knew him so I told her to HOOK me up! She said that he said he was going to look at my page. But my cousin went out of town and didn't have service for about a week. She called him & he said she was irritating him (she can be) so he hung up....... he sends out bulletins saying to IM him and leaves his screen name. Would it be doing too much if I instant messaged him? I don't usually do this! And I like him, too because he writes bulletins and blogs that are very passionate about his emotions and his place in life! (I do, too!) AND he's attractive... THIS is a RARE ONE! (link)
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GO FOR HIM, GIRL!!! if he left his sn, he wants people to IM HIM!!! so do it! you need to get him on your radar somehow. Good luck!!!
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15/f hello...well, recently in class, the people around me and I were discussing relationships. and then somehow...it got to "hookups." what's the difference? and also..how come when I told people that I've never had a hookup, their reaction was "O_O" lol...? are hookups considered bad or something? thank you in advance [= (link)
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hookups are making out and sometimes sex. a relationship is actually knowing a person, more emotional, and hookups are more physical. dont do anything youd regret, so if you feel pressured to hook up and you dont want to, dont! I know i sound like a health teacher, but whatever. Hope i helped a little bit!
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Is there any ways to help someone be kind of quieter sometimes? Because i tend to be really loud and want to tone it down sometimes
And another thing how can i think before i act because i keep gettin in trouble with my parents for being disrespectful and stuff. Thanx!!! (link)
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It sounds very simple but if youre not accustomed to it it can be pretty difficult. I think you should do what your parents say and think before you speak. if you really have some bad thoughts, while theyre still in your mind, vent them. It doesnt matter how. You can paint a picture, write about it in a journal, or anything. I know it sounds cheezy, but it worked for me!
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Ok so I will be turning 16 on December 20th. My mom would let me have like a big party, except I have NO clue what I would do. First of all, I don't have a huge amount of friends...so I'm confused as to who I should invite. I don't have a lot of guy friends at ALL. Actually I would say I don't have any. There's some guys that I just talk to, that I could invite...but I'm not exactly friends with them. I'm pretty shy, so that's why...and also that might be kinda weird if I asked them to come. I dunno. Like do people invite people they JUST talk to sometimes? Ahh... So then I was thinking just a few of my friends go somewhere, like maybe a movie or out to dinner. But that seems boring. I feel like I need to have a sweet 16 party...otherwise 16 is just another year older. I want it to be fun and stuff. But I have no clue what to do. Help?! Thanks so much! :] (link)
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I'd say that you should throw a little party with just your friends if you should feel uncomfortable with inviting the whole grade to your party, which is what id suggest if you have your mind set on a huge party. in my experience, almost nobody can hate the hostess of a huge party when theyre having fun, and eating free food. 8D so whichever you want to choose is good. Have fun and good luck... *~Sarah~*
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This is probably a dumb question,
but I just bought a couple of pairs of 'skinny' jeans, haha i lovee them. but anyways, what are some shoes that I shoudl wear with them?
Please dont suggest heels, because there is no way I'm going to school in heels, ouch.
I have converse, vans, sandles..flats..
help? other kinds that look good? (link)
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ooh, it depends what look youre going for. for punk, id go with the converses, not vans though, i suggest wearing those with flare jeans so they cover them a little. if they arent covered, then in my opinion, they look kinda dorky hehe. as for the sandles, i suggest thin straps, not the thick ones (i had some of those and they didnt work believe me) and out of all of these, i think the flats are your best bet. They are comfy, and they look really good with skinny jeans. also, when it cools down, might i suggest wearing them with suede boots (such as Uggs?) tuck them in and they go perfectly!
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Our girls ask guys dance is in November, and I need a cute way to ask my good good good guyfriend who I'm kind of crushing on (and I'm pretty sure he likes me too!) (link)
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How exciting!!! Go up to him where he is away from his friends or yours, if you ask him in front of other people, he might get shy. I think the best way to ask is to smile, and ask,
"Hey, *blank*, are you goin to the dance?" If he says yes or maybe, say,
"So do you want to go with me?" If he says no, act all disappointed, and say sadly, "Oh, that's too bad, I wanted to know if you wanted to go with me..." Good luck, have fun! I hope i helped!
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Ok,today right after my after school program I got to see one of my friends,whom I have'ent seen since summer break and she's in high school while I'm a 8th grader.Anyways we hugged,talked about what was going on our lives and things like that.Well I soon started telling her about my secret crush i still have since my last days of being a 7th grader.Well when i told her his name and how he used to look like and how he looks like now,when she was trying to picture him I saw him right behind us and he was'ent that from us either.I felt my heart sinking cause I really think that he heard me cause when i saw him he was looking at me!When he walked towrads a kid who called him i tried to convince myself that he did'ent hear a thing but my friend had to make it more worse by telling me that maybe he did hear me cause 'No dude just stands there like a dumbass.' I peeked at him a little but i could'ent tell if he was talking to his friend or just standing there.
Now I'm afriad he won't want to talk to me if he did hear me.I wanna stay relaxed and forget about it but I just Can't!
Also recently and espically today he's beening staring at me or looking my way.What does that mean?Not that I want to think negative but I really doubt he would like me. (link)
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First of all, be confident. Chin up, sister! If he doesn't like you, then bummer. This happened to me once, where i was talking about having a crush on a guy, and him overhearing me. I was absolutely mortified. He was a popular guy, and me, not so much. So of course it didnt work out. But i just kept on walking, because I knew that maybe it wasnt meant to be. Ah, well. And you know what? He might like you too! I know if I heard a guy who i liked at the time talking about having a crush on me, i would take two different routes: standing there (as he did) or smiling and acting all giggly. Of course guys prefer the first one, because it doesnt exactly make them look tough. It's a good sign that he is looking at you a lot. Personally, if you catch him staring, you either have a huge bug on your forehead, or he thinks youre pretty, even just for a moment. So doing it a lot, must mean that he has at least some feelings for you. I think you should go up to him and tell him how you feel. Even if you may not be confident, doing this at least portrays some courage, thus confidence. Confidence, as most people know, is an instinctive turn on to guys. If he says no, then thats really bad, its happened to people before. If he cant see what you have, and what he's missing, then keep searching. You might just find him in the strangest places.
Srry its so long, hope i helped!!!
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I've learned how to speak pig latin. But I've always wanted to know how to speak gibberish. Can any one teach me online how to... thanks in advance
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gibberish is actually spoken like this:
gidegibb erdager idegish. (gibberish) you pronounce each syllable as a different word and add G's. Here's an example sentence...
Idegi lodegove todegoo speadekeak idagin gidegibb erdager idegish! (I love to speak in gibberish) it takes a while to get used to, but once you do, you can talk as fluently as english. By the way, the other answer before me is pig latin, which you say you already know... Anyway, hope i helped u, and good luck!
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how do i win this guy i really like back over? i lied to him, and that is why he broke up with me.. and he says i shattered his heart...and i really love him soo much. and i think he still loves me, he just dont trust me.. (link)
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First of all, make some promises and keep them, this is the way to gain someones trust. You are at a rough part of your relationship where you can't do much of anything but try to build the foundation of your relationship that you knocked over. Give him some superglue and when he asks why, say, "It's for your shattered heart. I want to help fix it..." that will help a lot! Good luck!
~hope i helped~
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